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writes:hi, im a 16 year old male with relationship problems! i have this realy close friend of mine, she and i have been friends for over 5 years . we tell eachother everything! we carry on as if we are a couple , but we not! i realy like her, but i'm affraid if i make a move, it will spoil our relationship! and i cant aford to lose her! we are just to close! what should i do? but now my one friend is also inlove with her! and she seems to like him!and he is making a move! i need advice asap!thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 I did a lecture on exactly this topic called: From Friends To Lovers: Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man.
You are currently in the category of her brain that makes her see you as a friend. She will never date you until you change that.
1-Stop being her therapist
2-Take a break from her UNTIL she breaks it off with the boyfriend
3-Learn about her emotional needs, and how to address them
Once you have learned about her emotional needs and how to address them..
let her back into your life and make her your girlfriend.
You are trying to logically prove to her she should date you, and this is EMOTIONAL decision.
You can read reviews of my lecture that has the steps and information you need: http://www.lulu.com/content/2440004
-Frank B Kermit
Author of From Friends To Lovers
http://www.lulu.com/content/2440004
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reader, fortoner  +, writes (6 August 2008):
At 16 the girl probably doesn't even know what she wants. And if you are as close as you two seem to be then she is probably going to come crying to you when this relationship with your friend is over... good and bad... If she likes you that is great, but I would hate to see it become akward between you two if she thinks that you like her and she doesn't feel the same way... my advise... stay off for a bit, just hope and pray that she will come to you.
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