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writes:My bf wont tell me where hes moved to recently?, we have short brakes where he tells me he neads to be sucsefull and he cant do that while living or comitting to me. he tells me hes got a lot of work on, turns off his phone. Then i tell him where through, because i feel hes with another woman.he goes out alot. And then i here from him that he wants to make things right again. its been 2 years now.and im realy upset he wont tell me where he is living.? Reply to this Question
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 What he is doing isn't any way to treat someone he claims he cares about. Don't put up with this shoddy bad treatment and kick him to the curb.
You can do much much better.
Best wishes xo
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reader, fortoner  +, writes (6 August 2008):
Sorry girl, i agree with pashanoodle...
It sounds to me like the relationship isn't very stable to begin with. I know this is going to be hard but try to look at it from an outsiders perspective. If a relationship isn't going well in the first two years it isn't going to go well in the next twenty... He had his shot, the next time you tell him you are through Mean It!...No girl diserves to put up with that kind of crap...
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reader, pashanoodle +, writes (5 August 2008):
 I'm sorry - but this is crazy!! Why are you putting up with this? This is not a relationship - this is him controling you and doing whatever he likes regardless of how you feel.
This is not normal in any way honey - and you are right to feel angry and that there is something 'going on'....
There is no way this man is ever going to deliver - he will continue to use and hurt you because he can...you deserve much more. You should cut all contact with this creep.
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