How do we discuss things without fighting..?
Q. What is the best thing to do or say after a quarrel in a marriage and how best can arguments be presented without having to fight? My husband has difficulties saying I love you or I am sorry. Does it mean he doesnt love me? How best can I get m...
A. 23 October 2005: Explain to your husband that it is important for you to be made to feel special and important to him. Romance is an important part of the relationship to keep alive.
Some men do have trouble expessing their emotions but it doesn't mean that they... (read in full...)
I'm with a new guy, but my ex now says he wants me back!
Q. My ex bf and I are close. We broke up on good terms. I met a new guy closer to me and he's nice but my ex called me and told me he wants to get back together. I still have strong feelings for him. What should I do?...
A. 23 October 2005: Sounds to me like you know the answer already. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder, so give it another go with your ex, and if it is meant to be then it will work out for you both better this time round!xSx... (read in full...)
He got drunk and cheated on me. How do I know it won't happen again if I take him back?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating off and on for 8 months now. He has cheated on me once before, we broke up for a while, but he put a lot of effort into getting me back. I recently found out that he has a child (he didn't know either),...
A. 21 October 2005: Sounds like this guy wants to have his cake and eat it.
You need to tell him in no uncertain terms that you will not be so disrespected. If he truly loved you he would stay with you and be faithful. As for him having a child that he doesn't even... (read in full...)
His drinking is stressing me out. How do I break up, when he's threatened to take everything?
Q. I have an on again, off again relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. When I was always sick, he took care of me and my children. He would give and do anything for us. Unfortunately, he drinks and today he got angry because I found all these ...
A. 21 October 2005: I'm sorry, but you absolutely must leave this man. If he cared about you enough you wouldn't have such an up/down relationship, and he certainly wouldn't be putting you though this alcohol problem. It may be daunting to have to be on your own-b... (read in full...)
Why is my 16-year-old son in such a hurry to get married?
Q. My 16-year-old son told me yesterday he wants to marry his girlfriend soon - who is also 16. He goes to college and is doing well at the moment, so no worries there. I asked him had he thought about his future and he said yes, he wants to go ...
A. 19 October 2005: Unfortunately, young people of that age, especially young men, like to think they know whats best for them.
I think a lot of it is to so with control. You can never be too sure of life path and career, but marriage is viewed as some kind of gaur... (read in full...)
I discovered my husband in bed... with my Dad!
Q. I am 24 years old and from Wigan, Greater Manchester in the United Kingdom. I came home from work yesterday to find my husband having sex with my father in our bedroom! Even worse, I heard it has been going on for a year now and I never knew! I...
A. 17 October 2005: Hi Carla. I'm so sorry, this must be a huge shock for you. I think it's important that you tell your mum what you know. She will appreciate it coming from you, and you can both help each other better if you are in the same position. Speak to your ... (read in full...)
I'd love to meet a man who appreciates all my good qualities, but it's always about sex...
Q. I'm So Confused!! I'm 26 and I've had a few serious relationships. I'm no stranger to dating. But I don't understand why most of the guys I'm interested in only seem to be interested in having sex. I would like to be appreciated for more than ju...
A. 17 October 2005: I'm afraid that if you are only giving these guys what you think they want (i.e sex), then that is all you will get. Respect yourself more, and be patient! If a guy scarpers before you hit the sack then it wasn't worth it in the first place. Give ... (read in full...)
Both my best girl mate and me fancy my best boy mate!
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 13, and I have been best mates with this boy since playschool, 11 years. A week ago, I realised I fancied him, REALLY BADLY! So I told my other best mate (female)and she said she fancied him too! Now I don't know what to do, beca...
A. 16 October 2005: 'Love is only chatter. Friends are all that matter'
If you and your friend both like this guy, it's probably best to agree that neither of you should go after him.If either of you do, then you will be sacrificing the very friendship that will see ... (read in full...)
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