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writes: Hi everyone, I'm 13, and I have been best mates with this boy since playschool, 11 years. A week ago, I realised I fancied him, REALLY BADLY! So I told my other best mate (female)and she said she fancied him too! Now I don't know what to do, because of 2 reasons: 1. I don't want to lose my friendship with my best boy mate if he doesn't feel the same, and 2. I don't want to upset my other girl best mate by going out with him if he does feel the same. She says she wouldn't mind, but I still don't want to... I should let her go out with him, because she says she has fancied him for about a year, but I REALLY like him! HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): im in the same situation but i asked a few q's and found out that my boy mate doesnt like my friend anyway, to cut a long story short we got drunk together and he seemed to admit to liking me but was it the drink talking? oh dear... well i say play a few games of truth and dare with him, agree with your friend to involve lots of kissing dares in it and agree to see which kisses he seems to enjoy the most and let that person go after him! its the best way (plus u get to kiss him even if you dont go out with him!!!!!!!)
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reader, pops +, writes (16 October 2005):
I don't think at 13 your parents should be allowing you to date anyone. Nor your girlfriend, either. Life is full of choices, and you are learning that lesson the hard way. If you want to keep your friendship with her, don't do anything with him. At his age, you would probably scare him half to death. Girls mature a lot sooner then boys, and while you might be ready to date, he probably isn't.
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reader, punkedout13 +, writes (16 October 2005):
Hi, its me, punkedout13, well, i told my boymate that i fancied him LITTIERALLY about 4 hours ago, and he hasnt answered my calls or texts, because i told him over text, which was probably a bad i dea, so PLEASE help me n tell me what to do next!! i am soooo hurt...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2005): Have you spoken to your female friend properly about losing the three way friendship you all have going on, your 13 plenty of time for boyfriends and if you are meant to be with this male friend of yours you will be just maybe not yet its not like he will leave your life you have already been friends with him all this time, dont rush if its meant to be it will be in time.
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reader, FlowerFaerie +, writes (16 October 2005):
'Love is only chatter. Friends are all that matter'
If you and your friend both like this guy, it's probably best to agree that neither of you should go after him.If either of you do, then you will be sacrificing the very friendship that will see you through the tough times with him. xSx
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