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writes: My ex bf and I are close. We broke up on good terms. I met a new guy closer to me and he's nice but my ex called me and told me he wants to get back together. I still have strong feelings for him. What should I do?
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reader, amylynn +, writes (16 November 2005):
thanx for your help i chose my ex and then he cheated on me with two girls hmm he really did love me Huh? oh well im with the other guy now and he is awesome thanx for the advice if i didnt give my ex another chance i know i would have regretted it
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reader, x_kutekitten_x +, writes (23 October 2005):
You need to decide who you like more. I know this seems like an obvious answer but it's what you have to do. Talk to your ex, and see how he really feels. Maybe you need to be with your new guy, because you need a change in your life. Think about it for a while. My main advice to you is DO NOT RUSH INTO ANY HASTY DECISIONS! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2005): It appears your ex bf likely knows of your new interest and may be concerned that if he doesn't move fast, you will be gone forever. Sounds like he cares, deeply. You know the old saying "you snooze, you lose"--it applies here, bigtime. The decision is yours, go with your gut and what your heart is telling youi, dear. If you feel you'd like to date new people then go ahead. If your love for the ex is strong, then get back together. No one can approve or disapprove of what you need to do for your own happiness.. But do the best thing for yourself and just get on with life and enjoy.
Hugs, Irish
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reader, FlowerFaerie +, writes (23 October 2005):
Sounds to me like you know the answer already. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder, so give it another go with your ex, and if it is meant to be then it will work out for you both better this time round!xSx
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reader, elmino +, writes (23 October 2005):
I've done this to ex girlfriends before when i have been really attached to them.If you guys were having the odd bit of sex while you were "broken up" then this would be a major reason for his sudden re-interest in getting back together now that he knows your hooking up with another.Guys hate losing, he wants you to only have him in your mind.It also depends on who broke up with who.If he broke up with you, and hasn't found another, then yeah he's just jealous,and if you did get back together,it would only last as long as it takes for the other guy to be out of the picture.
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reader, laila_16 +, writes (23 October 2005):
Think about it. Do you love your ex? Do you love your current boyfriend? According to the answers, choose the guy. You said you still have strong feelings for your ex bf, then if this is true, and if you like him better than this guy you met, go back to him!
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