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Is it ok for 3rd cousins to date each other?

Q.   ok so I am in love with this guy and he is in love with me, we talk about the future and what we want to see in it, well the other day he told me that he want's to get married to me and have children the thing is that we found out that he is my 3rd ...

A.   29 August 2011: i'm into geneaolgy myself also , as the other pwerson said there are no direct blood lines involved so thereby your free to do what you want . if you were 1st cousins maybe there might be some to alot of concern morally... (read in full...)

Insecurity problems because of my previous relationship

Q.   Hey guys, im going to start school again in a few days and would like some relationship advice. I had my first girlfriend last year and really liked her but we broke up because she liked this other guy. Anyways Since then i find that i cant really ...

A.   29 August 2011: to be honest it sounds as though your basing your self worth on this 1st gf's actions and in that your giving her power over your life. yet she's technically not in it but yet your allowing her to control your feelings. your still in high school , ... (read in full...)

Fiance talks more to her ex than she does to me

Q.   Hello i have been with my fiance for 4 years now and we have 3 kids together but the oldest daughter is from a previous relationship and so not biologically mine but i am adopting her. Everything was going great until recently she started talkin to ...

A.   29 August 2011: ok , you say you've seen messages that proves she cheating on you with her (exbf or husband) yet you give no example of it here.(also if you believe it is proof print out copy of them when you confront her) i sort of agree with the girl responder ... (read in full...)

How do you just 'relax' in a relationship? I'm afraid of scaring him off

Q.   I'm afraid I'm going to ruin this 10 month old relationship with my projecting and second-guessing. I'm a viscerally emotional person--I tried antidepressants for 12 years and they just make me flat, so I refuse to go that route again. These ...

A.   29 August 2011: alot of your stress is self imposed , instead of looking at all the negatives (/that might happen) look at all the positives that have happened that are good in your relationship . focus on these and you'll see alot of the stress and other issues ... (read in full...)

I feel so jealous and insecure when he looks at other girls

Q.   Hey So my boyfriend lives a long way away and he travels up to see me every weekend nearly, and im so in love with him. there was one night at the pub when this girl he knew came in with his step sister, and he'd had alot to drink but he jus...

A.   29 August 2011: if this is the case just give him this rule you can look but no touch rule. if he touches he's history in your book. but say you reserve the right to do the same as well . whoa if he likes you he'll cut back on his looking at other girls . espe... (read in full...)

My family still treats me like I'm a little kid!

Q.   I'm sick and tired Of being treated like a little kid when in fact I'm Turning 20 in less than a weeks time! My family has double Standards for everyone in the family whilst my sister was out abroad living in another country doing as she pleased a...

A.   29 August 2011: maybe your older sister they felt could handle herself better for some reason. maybe they think you might not fair as well . more fragile or apted to get hurt more easily. at the age of 18 (if in usa) your considered to be a legal adult yet your 20. ... (read in full...)

Why does cheating thrill me?

Q.   Why does the thought and act of cheating thrill me? I have cheated on my gf twice now both times on purpose. I still love her but I like to cheat I don't want to hurt her....

A.   29 August 2011: dude , one day if you don't change you'll be with a girl that your really into and maybe find out how thrilling it is to be cheated on by her. you can't love this girlfriend at present if you enjoy cheating on her and do it intentenally says your do ... (read in full...)

In a relationship with a partner sending nude photos to others?

Q.   I am wondering what someone say about this situation. If you are in a relationship with someone, a long term relationship, is it ok for one of those people to send nude pictures of themself to other random people online, in hopes of getting some ...

A.   29 August 2011: why are you dating this guy?(you say at present its a long term relationship) it sounds as though its going to be short term to me, if he's sending off nude pics now to random (i'm supposing its girls) people while just in a dating mode with you . ... (read in full...)

I'm using the toilet too often!

Q.   hi im really annoyed because i need to use the toilet anthing up 20 times a day, wat can i do please i need help!!!...

A.   6 September 2010: ok, every person is physically different some may only need to go 1 time every other day some more often. in my case i have a physical problem after an operation 4 yrs ago called short bowel syndrome. and yes at times i go alot each day other times ... (read in full...)

I damaged our relationship in the past and I am not sure boyfriend has gotten over it

Q.   I met my boyfriend a little over a year ago, and everything was great at first. I got scared when I started to fall in love with him and began pushing him away. This went on for about nine months and the whole time I was completely oblivious to the ...

A.   6 September 2010: the biggest thing is communication in any relationship. that means alot of talking . now i'm going to let you in on a little secret . i'm what many would call the proverbial nice sweet guy from the prehistoric days of the 1960's lol. so gives me ... (read in full...)

She kissed another guy and I'm really upset about it. What to do next?

Q.   guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break. they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what to do. i didnt even shout at her i just said ' okay' and left her. she...

A.   5 September 2010: are you insane dude . she was honest enough to tell you about this . she says he kissed her she didn't iniate it . she valued you enough to tell you about it (thats her showing you some respect and hoping that you would show her some trust) dah d... (read in full...)

Lost in high school, lost in life generally

Q.   I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...

A.   5 September 2010: rule # 1 don't do things to please others do it to please you. rule #2 sometimes stress may seem to be the pits in ones life . however its how we deal with it that makes the difference in our lives. if we take one day at a time and just deal with... (read in full...)

Evidence that he's looked at escort sites and had a Craiglist ad

Q.   Hi everyone. Have been reading the site because I'm just so lost right now. I ended things with my boyfriend of 10 months earlier this week. There have been some trust issues in the past which I guess is what led up to this. This past Tues...

A.   5 September 2010: i'm a computer tec and can tell you it is highly possible that this could be the case. sometimes its done just to get personal info credit card info /bank info and the such besides craigs list is not all what its cracked up to be . yes at times its ... (read in full...)

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