A previous porn addict balancing masturbation/porn in new relationship
Q. I have in my past been strongly addicted, and satisfied somewhat, with porn browsing, gathering, viewing and masturbation. I enjoyed every aspect of it, and though I've struggled with it's influence on my relationships and tried countless times to ...
A. 9 November 2010: Thankyou for a thoughtful and detailed response!. At first, your question seemed shortsighted, but I sensed an sincerity behind what you were saying, & wanted to make the most of everyone’s opinions here ... you had an excellent response!
Yes, ... (read in full...)
Why would he want to be with someone as inexperienced as I am?
Q. I am having been talking with a 40 year old man online for the past four months. We tell each other romantic things but I've noticed he rejects something actually meaningful. For example, we decided to watch a movie at the same time together and I ...
A. 8 November 2010: How can you really connect with him when his life must be at a completely different place than yours? At your age, which I am only a few years over, I could never imagine being at a place where I have kids graduating from high school. You're wh... (read in full...)
Virginity
Q. Every time I see a sex question posted by a young girl 13-15, I cringe and tell myself, "Don't you dare read this." Myself stubbornly refuses to listen, blows me a raspberry, and reads on - hell is sometimes unleashed. The questions which affect me ...
A. 8 November 2010: I hope many people read this.... (read in full...)
A previous porn addict balancing masturbation/porn in new relationship
Q. I have in my past been strongly addicted, and satisfied somewhat, with porn browsing, gathering, viewing and masturbation. I enjoyed every aspect of it, and though I've struggled with it's influence on my relationships and tried countless times to ...
A. 8 November 2010: First of all, I happily say, still porn free. 23 days? Yes.
Female anonymous, if you’re following up on this question, I don’t fully understand the meaning of what you’re saying, you’re unclear.
Are you saying that I’d be a ticking time bom... (read in full...)
No sex after jacking off?
Q. Is man unable to sex with girl after doing many time jack off?...
A. 7 November 2010: Look up "refractory period" - it is different for different men, but basically there is a period where a male is unable to orgasm, which can be anyuwhere from a couple of minutes to hours. Can he have sex in spite of this? Yes, but like Welsh U... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants his friend to watch us have sex
Q. My boyfriend wants me to have sex with his friend infront of him ! I don't know what to do! help me please xx...
A. 7 November 2010: Sex is something personal, it seems you share this view, between 2 people. Tell him it's no one else's business.... (read in full...)
How common is it to see women that resemble porn stars in reality?
Q. I got a question its kinda weird.. Minus the girls with boob jobs, Is the natural breast in porn really what most girls breast look like? How common is it to see pornstar material in reality? Just wondering.. its not that its important to me, i ...
A. 6 November 2010: Depends what kind of porn you're talking about, what kind of girl. I mean, there isn't just one kind - if you're looking at polished, stereotypical boob-job slut porn, or are you looking at something that encourages more natural beauty? I'm ... (read in full...)
A previous porn addict balancing masturbation/porn in new relationship
Q. I have in my past been strongly addicted, and satisfied somewhat, with porn browsing, gathering, viewing and masturbation. I enjoyed every aspect of it, and though I've struggled with it's influence on my relationships and tried countless times to ...
A. 6 November 2010: Hmm, thank you for your feedback here. I have had that perspective for a long time, I know there is nothing inherently wrong with masturbation, I guess I was just worried about the fantasy element. Not that I was cheating on her, just I don't ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend worries too much!
Q. This past November my friend convinced me to join a dating website, knowing I didn't have enough time to find someone with so much to do for work and college. Soon after I got a message from a shy, quiet PhD student at a local Ivy League school. We ...
A. 6 November 2010: Sounds like both of you are very good for each other. He clearly has some issues he needs to work out with anxiety, and your relationship is the perfect way for him to grow. If you do love him by now, I would stand by him and support him with... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do to make a relationship out of this or should I just get over her?
Q. ok so during this school year i met this girl first semestre that i really liked. But i blew a couple oppurtunities to ask her out and now we dont talk. So then, move on and next semestre i meet this really pretty girl who wasn't single first ...
A. 6 November 2010: If she tells you you're just friends, she probably doesn't want a relationship with you.
But, all that said, and I'm speaking from experience here, if it's important to you, don't give up. Persistence can pay off, and people's feelings do chang... (read in full...)
Unexplained attraction to motherly types
Q. Okay so I'm a girl in my late teens and I'm fairly confident I'm straight but I have this weird, pervasive attraction to motherly figures, generally women in their mid twenties to early thirties who are kind and caring (somewhat specific I know). ...
A. 6 November 2010: Is this pervasive attraction sexual or romantic in nature, or of a more platonic sense? Are you attracted to men otherwise? I'd say at the least, be sure to be honest with yourself so you can understand it all better. For me as a heterosexual ... (read in full...)
She turns me off and on like a switch
Q. I'm slightly confused at the moment, i've known this women for 2 years now,the first time we met we hit it of well, not to sound corny but we sensed something in eachothers eyes, she flirted with me by always looking deeply into my eyes, always ...
A. 6 November 2010: Maybe if since she's known you for 2 years and you haven't gotten past flirting, she's looking elsewhere now. Some people can only wait so long ... unless I misunderstand your post.... (read in full...)
How can I control where things go???
Q. I'm a late-teenage guy currently studying for a degree. I have never been in a relationship before. This girl in my subject first sat next to me a few days ago. She was pretty and friendly, but I didn't know her name. As she was talking to som...
A. 6 November 2010: 1) I'd say yes. Take a leap of faith on this one and see she's showing definite interest in you.
If you want something to happen, at least show interest back, though only in a way you're comfortable with. (I mean, if you don't want to casually... (read in full...)
My new love interest is giving me mixed signals and my ex is pressurising me by being emotional all the time. What do I do?
Q. This may be easier to understand if you read my previous question. The same guy who I have been interested in and who showed interest in me - things have been so slow, it's non - existant. What would I like to happen is for him to get in touch and...
A. 6 November 2010: You could confront him. Tell him you're interested, get it out in the open, and stop waiting for him. If he's that important to you that you can't stop worrying about it, sounds like it's at least worth the risk.
Guys don't always have to make ... (read in full...)
I am doing me...But I still wonder about relationships..
Q. I need some insight. I am usually single, haven't had any real serious boyfriends. I've had flings and casual relationships. Sometimes I feel like I'm ready to be in a relationship. It would be nice, but at the same time, I don't want to be one of ...
A. 6 November 2010: No, nothing is wrong with you. It sounds to me like you understand you have to come first.
It takes time for people to understand the role a relationship can & should play in their life. If it takes up too much, you'll naturally feel sick of ... (read in full...)
Admit it guys, you're fantasizing about the girls in porn, the rest is just excuses
Q. I have opinion's I’d like to express about male sexuality. Porn. I understand that not all girls have an issue with it, just as some guys don’t watch it. I often hear of guys feeling like they have to hide it from there spouse. "what they don’t know ...
A. 6 November 2010: The truth is, men used to viewing porn like how images and videos stimulate them. I personally enjoyed searching for them, finding them, the whole process of porn searching, gathering, and viewing online (and masturbating) was a ritual that I ... (read in full...)
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