I'm never really physically attracted to guys and I don't know why
Q. I am 28 and I've never been properly physically attracted to anyone in real life. Is that weird? I have had boyfriends who I think are nice enough looking I suppose, and I have enjoyed sex with them to a certain degree because it feels nice once I ...
A. 22 July 2013: I disagree with the previous poster. It is nothing to do with sexuality. I can totally identify with the OP. I had boyfriends in the past, they asked me out and I accepted because they had been friends first but I was never really attracted to the... (read in full...)
Married for 32 years and she's never given me oral sex. Will I die never knowing what it's like?
Q. I am 56 yrs old, sitting here late at night ready to cry - in that I have known my wife (55) for 35 yrs., married for 32, with 3 grown children and 2 grandchildren - and through all these years, she has never given me oral sex. I made some subtle ...
A. 22 July 2013: Well that truly sucks. Have you told her, how you feel? maybe show her this question and see her reaction, if you feel that strongly about it talk to her properly and ask her why she said its a phobia. Some women are taught that sex was not ... (read in full...)
Is a threesome a good idea? Should I delay decision making, until I return in a month?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles :) I'll start with a bit of back story first. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now and we believe we are in a strong relationship. We've been through a lot what with family death and serious fall outs be...
A. 22 July 2013: No idea, I have never had a threesome. I cannot imagine it is a good idea. Are you doing it just for your boyfriend? Don't be pressured into something you are not happy with, or just to please him. You seem quite young, have some self respect and ... (read in full...)
How do I let my trans female boyfriend know I accept them?
Q. My 'boyfriend' has come out to me as trans-female. I am totally fine with this, but I would like a little bit of advice on how to make her feel like/know I accept her. I want to treat her right and I'm not sure how/what would be seen as too fa...
A. 31 May 2013: Actions generally speak louder than words. It must be a big change for her (probably start off by saying he now) possibly some emotional issues and adjustments being made with your partner. Just give all the love, understanding and support that is ... (read in full...)
I am unsure how to help my online girlfriend with her sexual needs
Q. This will probably sound odd at first, but please bear with me. So for the past eight months, I have been dating this girl in MA online, and for the most part, everything has been going fine. We have our ups and downs, but we love oneanother deepl...
A. 31 May 2013: Wow and so young too.
She is not asexual if she is turned on every night. If you don't feel comfortable talking with her and if it does not turn you on speak with her and explain your reasons.
Sexual pleasure be it online/offline i... (read in full...)
Its our 5th date and I really want to kiss her but want to set things up and not blow it!
Q. Hello Dear Cupid community, I need some urgent tips; last minute advice if you please. Tomorrow I'm taking out this girl to a party, this is our fifth date. To give you some context, I'm 27 years old, she's 23. I never had a girlfriend befor...
A. 31 May 2013: I guess if you are both sitting together, take her hand and see how she responds to your touch. If she pulls away, maybe don't kiss her. If she smiles at you and has good open body language, just actually say to her do you mind if I kiss you? And ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 31 May 2013: Thank you for responses and time out to write. No he dumped me last night:( I am so distraught and broken. We discussed before we got together, if I had cybered with anyone. I left out some details in the past I guess, told him about it now but he ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: No spoke to him and he is questioning me about how many people I may have cybered with before I was with him. Told him, doesn't believe me and a bit annoyed with me now. I don't think that is the issue, for as long as I have been with him I never ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: No no he does understand. That is one of the problems, he said if he was me it would be over, doesn't understand why I want to continue I guess. Said he has a thought that whatever he says to me now I think will be meaningless so why should be ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: No he understands why I may have a lack of trust in him right now, and it is niggly yet funny enough my intuition trusts him implicitly and I have the faith in him not to do it again. I know he wont hurt me like that again, just getting him out of ... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: Sorry I'm slow today, no its a real relationship. Thank you for explaining.... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: Sorry what is TIFKASM?... (read in full...)
Is cyber sex considered cheating?
Q. Hi all, Just a question I would like to ask other users here. If you are in a loving, committed relationship with your soul mate whom you love dearly but find out they have meaningless cybersex (without masturbating) would you consider it chea...
A. 29 May 2013: Well we both go to this online chat room from time to time. Neither of us speak to anyone from it on any messaging device like skype or msn etc but there is a facility that you can private message. We both became friendly with this one girl, she ... (read in full...)
The thought of this man really excites me but I don't want to lose my husband
Q. I am riddled with guilt, anxiety, and excitement. I am married 15 years to a man I have known 20 years. Recently I met a man at a place I usually shop. We struck up a conversation, and met almost every day there. Finally he asked me if I am ...
A. 29 May 2013: Hmm you are a married woman, best to sit down and talk to your husband. Maybe not happy in your marriage and need to get the spark back. Masturbating is fine, nothing to be ashamed of but finger banging to another man and sending him pictures of ... (read in full...)
Do girls share everything with their friends?
Q. I like this girl lets call her a. So in school a also responded me well.it was well obvious we both liked each other. We chat on facebook. And now i came 2 know.. Whenevr i used to chat with her,she used to share that with other freinds. Does gir...
A. 29 May 2013: It depends, sometimes if a girl has a problem or wants to understand something a bit more, she will ask her friends for advise or has a lack of experience. You guys are young and young girls may share experiences. ... (read in full...)
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