I want to see my girlfriend with another guy, how do I suggest this?
Q. I've been with my beautiful girlfriend for about a year now. We're in our 20's but shes several years older than me. We love each other very much. We've had amazing sex since day one however as of late I've been having this reoccurring fantasy of ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm going to take the safe route on this one and keep this fantasy in my fantasy file. Thank you for your input on the matter.
Things are going great with this girl. We've been going a year strong and I feel like she is one in a million so I don... (read in full...)
I need some "first time" advice.... quick!
Q. For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So ...
A. 19 February 2009: Well, skill in bed is something that really has to be learned through hands on experience. Its rather difficult to explain or try to absorb the information via the internet.
I guess since she has more experience you should let her lead you thro... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but can't bring myself to talk to her what do I do?
Q. I am in love with a girl whom I think is just God-blessed in everything she does. School-wise, she's been around since kindergarten, though I hardly noticed her throughout those years. As we became mere high school freshmen in 2004, I began to...
A. 19 February 2009: First of all bud if you want to have a remote chance of striking up a romance with this girl you're going to have to get the idea that she's so high above you and you are unworthy out of your head. Girls (all girls) like a confident guy. Some girls ... (read in full...)
I really like this girl but can't bring myself to talk to her what do I do?
Q. I am in love with a girl whom I think is just God-blessed in everything she does. School-wise, she's been around since kindergarten, though I hardly noticed her throughout those years. As we became mere high school freshmen in 2004, I began to...
A. 19 February 2009: First of all bud if you want to have a remote chance of striking up a romance with this girl you're going to have to get the idea that she's so high above you and you are unworthy. Girls (all girls) like a confident guy. Some girls hold confidence ... (read in full...)
Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!?
Q. Is it a huge turn-on for men if your girlfriend catches you off guard and wants sex?!? I'm asking because my bf of almost a month keeps asking for sex, but I'm not ready just yet. I'm getting there though. And I think catching him off guard wo...
A. 19 February 2009: YES! this is exactly what you need to do. Especially if he's been bugging you for it. When he's starting to give up on nagging you just spring it on him. He will be at your beck and a call. Great idea.... (read in full...)
How can I sound more intelligent when I'm talking to him?
Q. I feel kinda dumb around the guy I like, he uses all these big words, I wanna open up a thesaurus and build my own vocabulary so I can sound witty and smart, is that bad? Is he right for me if he's smarter than me? It's so attractive to me and I ...
A. 19 February 2009: Don't sweat it. I think a lot of people have this concern (guys and gals).
Have you considered the possibility that your insecurity is mostly in your head and that you are magnifying it?
When you're around him try to just relax and be you... (read in full...)
Is it worth losing my family and friends in order to achieve my dreams?
Q. I'm 20, female and from a traditional muslim family. I was abused in more ways then one, everyone thinks I'm useless. I completed my A levels, got into uni but my parents didn't let me go. I have no indepedence, no job, no money, no life and have ...
A. 19 February 2009: Go for your dreams! If your family won't support you in following your goals and dreams then forgive me for saying so but you don't need them in your life.
Get out there and be who you want to be! your story touches me and I wish you success ... (read in full...)
The romance rut!
Q. I feel that me and my boyfriend of over a year have fallen into a romance rut. I want to try something that will really wow him and hopefully spark something inside of him to make him show more affection. Any suggestions?? ...
A. 19 February 2009: Let me give you the guys answer to this question.
As much as you're fretting over a lack of romance, your guy may very well be clueless about it and not even have noticed anything missing. Its possible that to him things seem perfectly normal. ... (read in full...)
My friend is planning on cheating on his girl..what am I supposed to do?
Q. My friend started dating a girl i sort of have known for a while a month ago. They seem to be getting along fine, but recently they haven't been spending to much time together which is mainly because they are both pretty busy which is ...
A. 19 February 2009: Well bud you're going to have to make a decision.
This is definitely a pickle for you but its either you break your friendship with him or you let this go down and keep your mouth shut because if you do tell her and he finds out that you did, whi... (read in full...)
Do we love again? Is it different with someone else?
Q. My girlfriend of four years has dumped me, i hurt bsadly and have spent 8 weeks either crying or fighting back tears. My question is does the first love always hurt this much or do you miss that great loving feeling forever? I loved her like i've ...
A. 19 February 2009: These sort of feelings are unbearably painful and seem VERY hopeless but you have to just hang on and push through. Life is ever changing and when it does so in a manner that makes us feel like our whole world has been torn apart it can be ... (read in full...)
I need some "first time" advice.... quick!
Q. For the past year my best friend and I have been getting closer. We have decided to have sex for the first time this Friday, so in two days. Is there any advice somebody can give on what to do and what not do? This is my first time but not hers. So ...
A. 19 February 2009: First of all you need to know that sex can ruin friendships. After you two get it on you might become emotionally attached to her. How would you feel if you had deep feelings for this girl and then she moved on and started having sex with someone ... (read in full...)
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