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I cheated on my girlfriend with a kiss. Should I tell her?

Q.   i cheated on my girlfriend, it was only a kiss, i know its wrong still yes, i'm not on here looking to be judged, what i want to know is, should i tell her, she'll be destroyed, it was only a kiss and she's cheated on me a few times before in the ...

A.   8 February 2011: She would be even more destroyed if she heard that you cheated from someone other than you, and the truth always comes out in the end. Tell her so that she can decide for herself whether she can handle it. If she has cheated on you before like this ... (read in full...)

Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?

Q.   There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I ...

A.   8 February 2011: Ignoring the fact that you really should be using protection anyway, and waiting a few more years, there are a few reasons why you have been lucky enough not to be pregnant yet: Have you properly started your periods yet? Before that happens you... (read in full...)

He's my soul mate but I'm not his

Q.   i love my husband to bits, he's the reason i didn't go to university, gave up pursuing my dream career, i even left my family and home to marry him. nearly 5 yrs into the marriage and i still feel he loves me but isn't 'in love' with me, and that ...

A.   8 February 2011: What has he done to make you feel this way? Is it possible that he is in love with you but has a different more subtle way of showing it than you do? You have clearly invested a lot in this relationship so in return you expect a lot back which is ... (read in full...)

I am so depressed and have no motivation to do anything

Q.   I was wondering if anyone felt the same way? Lately i have been so depressed i dont want to do anyhting but sleep and eat. I broke up from my ex a couple of months ago(he was emotonally abausive) but i am over that, but i still feel empty and sad ...

A.   8 February 2011: It sounds to me like you are depressed. Life doesn't have to be like this and it doesn't have to be this hard. Arrange to see your doctor or talk to your psychiatrist who can really help you get out of this cycle. You will meet somebody who is ... (read in full...)

I want sex toys but I have to ask my mom

Q.   I would like to ask my mum about getting sex toys but need her to buy them since I am only 15 and can't buy online. But I have know idea how to ask her since she is not so open about these things ...

A.   8 February 2011: Talking to your mum about sex toys would be understandably quite tricky for most teenagers. I'm not even sure how I would go about it myself! However, if you do want a sex toy of some sort Ann Summers sells them in their shops. Its a credible shop ... (read in full...)

When I do see him I can't think of anything to say!

Q.   So i like this guy alot, and he likes me too. but we dont get much time to talk anymore and sadly when we do get a chance to talk, i cant come up with anything worth saying... anybody have some good short conversation starters?...

A.   8 February 2011: If you feel like you have nothing to say then perhaps do something which you can both talk about afterwards. Suggest going to the cinema or going bowling. If you go with some other friends too it may take the pressure off. If you're talking online ... (read in full...)

My fiance is chatting with his ex girlfriend 3-5 nights a week!

Q.   Hi My Fiance and I been together for 8 yrs, Been living together in the house we bought for 4 yrs now. We are having a few issues, which I hope we can work out. 4 weeks now he has been chatting with an old girlfriend on the computer in front of me, ...

A.   8 February 2011: I know what you're going through and I know that it really does hurt to feel second best like this. Perhaps directly telling him not to talk to her sounded to him a little overbearing which sparked off the bad reaction? Maybe you could try talking ... (read in full...)

Dating 6 months and things are getting weirder and weirder

Q.   i have been seeing a guy for 6 months and things are getting weirder and more confusing everyday! at first he begged me to be with him and i told him i didn't think either of us were ready yet but he insisted and persisted and i finally gave in. so ...

A.   8 February 2011: I get why he might be a bit of a confused mess right now, but that doesn't give him the right to string you along forever. If it were me I would tell him that he has a week until I would put my foot down and tell him to either step up and be in a ... (read in full...)

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