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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i love my husband to bits, he's the reason i didn't go to university, gave up pursuing my dream career, i even left my family and home to marry him. nearly 5 yrs into the marriage and i still feel he loves me but isn't 'in love' with me, and that tears me apart every time i think about it. to give up almost everything i was and had to find and feel he's only ever given his heart away once..to his ex. he's kind and cares for me a lot and says he loves me, but it isn't enough for me, who as a child always dreamt of finding the guy who will love her so madly, unconditionally and with all his heart....like i love him. he's my soul mate but i know am not his. people say u can never forget or stop loving your first love...it hurts so much to know i will never have that place in his heart. please help
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reader, eloora +, writes (8 February 2011):
What has he done to make you feel this way? Is it possible that he is in love with you but has a different more subtle way of showing it than you do? You have clearly invested a lot in this relationship so in return you expect a lot back which is fair. Try to identify where you feel things could improve and talk to him about it and let him know exactly what you need, because until you do he might not realise how he is making you feel.
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