B/f still good friends with his ex
Q. im so confused and dont know what to do... my boyfriend is still friends with his ex and this is killing me and affecting our relationship. i started dateing my boyfriend 6 months ago, and its the first serious relationship iv had. whe...
A. 14 January 2009: tell him straight up he needs to make a choice...you or her....... that if you ever find out hes in touch with her its over..... he has to respect your feelings would he have been ok if you were doing the same with your ex??? i dont think so.... ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her the trouble is only for short time?
Q. we have been dating for the last one year. this relationship has had its own valleys and hills. the girl is a secondary school dame and i an in my final year in college. sometimes back, i had been posted to a town far away and our meeting was ...
A. 14 January 2009: talk to her... tell her you are at a crucial stage of your life if you screw up now.... your life wont be as you want it to be that eventually includes being with her.....! but you need to make something of yourself before you can completely be with ... (read in full...)
We want to marry, he's muslim & his family is against the marriage
Q. I am 26 and I am in love with a Muslim guy(I am not). We were classmates in University and have been friends ever since. We are very serious about each other and plan to get married. However, his family is conservative and is dead against marrying ...
A. 14 January 2009: sweetheart i have a friend in a similar situuation what i have learnt outta that is..... marriage in your situation would mean a complete sacrifice and change from your end,because you havent been brought up in an envoirnment like his trust me it ... (read in full...)
Best way to keep a man's interest?
Q. Why is it that men will call you at first every day and then miss a day and you don't hear from them? Are they just busy or does that mean they aren't that into you? Should I call or send a text? What is the best thing to do to keep their interest?...
A. 14 January 2009: no matter what always let them chase you,not otherwise..... till they have the chase they re into you! how you do it depends on the guy and your creativity!... (read in full...)
Not sure what these feelings mean?
Q. I'm 16 and I'm confused. I've dated a few guys but never felt an actual attraction to any of them. I tried dating a girl once and I thought I felt something, but I just figured that it was more the desire to be with someone than an actual attraction ...
A. 14 January 2009: these things happen at such an age.... keep a check on yourself at all times.... you havent really liked a guy yet.... once you do i think you ll be fine..... if not consult a specialist!... (read in full...)
How do I scare him-I'm NOT a doormat!
Q. in the time that i've been with my boyfriend which is nine months, he's cheated on me three times (only kissing) twice with the same girl, i've forgiven him obviously, not easily but he's still gone and done it again, he doean't think about the ...
A. 14 January 2009: the only way to scare him is to BREAK UP with him and moving on with your life.... sweetheart there are loads of fish in the sea!!!! dont allow anyone to treat you like that!... (read in full...)
In love with 2 guys
Q. I have a major problem. I have a boyfriend and i love him despite the major flaws he has that i can't seem to solve the few issues we have between us. but just lately i've been feeling extra close to my best friend and sometimes he makes me fe...
A. 12 January 2009: Friendship often ends in love but love in friendship..... never.... you need to reason these feelings you have both for your BF and friend..... maybe this issue with your BF has made you see your friend in a new light.... see who you like speding ... (read in full...)
If she had a problem with my possesiveness she should have told me face to face,
Q. I have been having a relationship with my girlfriend for the last four years. I never knew (neither she told me) that indirectly I told her to do stuff she doesn't want to do (like going out with guy friends, talking to unknown guys on phone, t...
A. 12 January 2009: you need to trust her and bringing up the same thing again and again is irritating as hell! either trust her completely if you really love her or let go cuz theres no love/ successfull relationship without trust!one simple way of making you ... (read in full...)
Is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird way?
Q. i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew ...
A. 12 January 2009: well time heals everything....one sided love never works ... eventually you will realise whats right for you i just hope its not too late!... (read in full...)
We're both married to others, but can he really love me?
Q. can a married man ever love another woman. i am a married woman who still lives with her husband and kids but have told my husband ive been seeing someone else. i met this other man through a work conference. hes married for 16 yrs me 9yrs. at ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hi, There is a reason you got married and had kids with your current huband.... why do you think you got interested in another man... slept with him? has your marriage gotten boring? i personally feel when one is married and had kids his/her ... (read in full...)
I'm confused - shoulkd I keep the baby?
Q. hi! im 23 years of age and have been dating a guy for 1 year and a month now...ever since we went out 3 times and yet he says he loves me. he calls me everyday and texts me with sweet msg's. at first i had to cope up with his father who didnt ...
A. 12 January 2009: dear.....motherhood is not a joke.... read about it.... research it then decide are you ready for it? do you have anyone to help you out with the baby? are you ready to put someone else above your needs 24/7? youre still young.... you still have ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or let him go?
Q. i`m 24 years old and i`ve seeing somoeone for almost 8 yrs now and we`ve got a 2 year old daudgther. the thing is i don`t think my bf still loves me anymore cause we always fighting and this has been going on for months now, to tell you the truth i ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hi,
from what you have mentioned about him.... he doent seem interested in your lives... but then may be cuz whenever he comes around he gets no response from you!? is it so? do you sit with him, talk to him when he comes to visit you and your... (read in full...)
He blows hot and cold. What does he want from me?
Q. I am in love with this guy, he has been through a lot in life, he had a girlfriend who was with him for 10 years she destroyed him and also his marriage. He is emotionally scarred, he visited a psychiatrist and with medication is fine now. He keeps ...
A. 12 January 2009: hi....
what i understand of your situation is....you love someone who has been through a lot personally and looks like needs unconditional love... question you need to ask your self is, are you ready for such a demanding relationship? can you ... (read in full...)
Is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird way?
Q. i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew ...
A. 12 January 2009: hi, sorry for what happened with you...im sure you are confused as hell right now but i personally feel hes just taking advantage of your state of mind.... you have mentioned ample of times in your question that you bought him stuff, did things f... (read in full...)
I want to talk intimately but not sure how?
Q. Hello..! I (15 year old) met this guy (19 year old) 2 years ago and since then we were good friends and now for roughly a year we’ve been dating with a gap of 4 months in between due to some misunderstandings from my side. Lately we’ve got involved ...
A. 11 January 2009: hey sweety.....dont you think the converation shouldve come before the actual thing? never the less... theres always a second chance one can take....use humour its the best way to talk about anything...... start with i miss you and stuff.... then ... (read in full...)
Is he using me to get over his ex?
Q. My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's ...
A. 11 January 2009: Hi,
First of all feelings are neither right or wrong they re just feelings! there might be something that triggered this feeling in you.... try to find that out and reason it... if you think it makes sense , ask him to sort him out first.... if h... (read in full...)
Do we exist?
Q. Im going to pick an emotion or whatever you call them. Love. Is it an emotion? A feeling? A force? You are welcome to post your opinion. My opinion is that there is no such thing... the most perfect explanation. Its just an illusion, an hal...
A. 11 January 2009: sweety love happens at different levels at different ages.... at your age it will confuse the hell outta you but with time.... and experience.... you ll know only when the time is right.... as they say love is like a butterfly the more you chase it ... (read in full...)
I've lost respect for my wife
Q. I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have...
A. 11 January 2009: you re welcome harinder....life doesnt give you many chances to start over... guess you still have a shot at this one give it your best... and best shall return do lemme know if you need any help with this cheers!... (read in full...)
I've lost respect for my wife
Q. I have been married for 5 years now and i feel im losing respect for my wife and i don't know how i feel towards her. I feel like im flirting with other women, My wife is a really good woman but i don't feel like i am a good husband, we have...
A. 10 January 2009: Hi
i think you re just bored..... you need a break for your self ...time to sort your thoughts out! As far as loving your wife is concerned is you are the only one who can answer that... and yes if you think she's so nice... why dont you give her ... (read in full...)
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