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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My friend for a while just told me that he's really feeling me. But he has a situation dealin with his ex-girlfriend. He says that he don't know if he's feeling her more or me. I was just wondering if he using me to get over his ex, because that's what I'm feelin. Should I feel this way?
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reader, ecstasy  +, writes (11 January 2009):
 Hi,
First of all feelings are neither right or wrong they re just feelings! there might be something that triggered this feeling in you.... try to find that out and reason it... if you think it makes sense , ask him to sort him out first.... if he still keeps mentioning/thinking about his ex..... get away for a while that way when youre not around and if he misses your presence means theres soemthing more to it!!!but make sure hes completely over his ex before going any further! all the best!
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (11 January 2009):
unless he makes his mind up youll never know! dont let him call the shots, who put him in charge? why should he be given the choice and not knowing who to pick. i wouldnt want to be part of his games until he sorted himself out. make it clear that unless he sorts himself out your not going to sit around waiting, hes being unfair to you and you havent even started a relationship yet that to me shows he can be uncaring towards you (and even his ex). he obviously doesnt know what to do but until he does id stay well clear. you dont want to get involved into the 'love triangle' type thing its really something you should avoid! best of luck xxx
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