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writes:i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course of our relationship i bought him stuff that had great value, i did this because i loved him and cared for him loads as u do... he bought himself a house in which i helped him renovate all the time .. no matter what he wanted i would do it .. it was love..i drove him places with his mates so he could drink have a good time .. all this was done out of the goodness of my heart ... one day his feelings just changed and i was dumped it was 4 days after his bday i bought him over 800 bucks worth stuff ..again cos he was worth it ... we dont talk or anything it sucks he told me we will remain great mates and stuff like that .. i feel really hurt and really annoyed that he could treat me like this after all i did for him .. i didnt realize that loving somone and caring would end up like this .. i saw him for the first time the other day he was drinking at a bar i was at and he was all over me flirting and carrying on .. he pecked me on the lips a few times and grabbed my hand and put it on his jeans i pulled away cos i knew it was wrong ... i just dont understand him hes just brushed me aside but yet he does that he never calls or txt me ... i called him and asked him what the go was he told me he was drunk and doesnt remember what he done but he remembers everything else of the the night he said he doesnt want to be with me and he not goin to give the relationship another go .. is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird ways
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reader, ecstasy  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 well time heals everything....one sided love never works ... eventually you will realise whats right for you i just hope its not too late!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyea i know lol its aweful feeling he told me i was the best girlfriend ever and that i was the one .. but y lol i really wish it was simple to let go but i still love him with all my heart hew told me he wanted to marry me when he was breakin up with me .. i honstly thought he had genuinew feeling but how fuckin wrong was i its fucked i do deserve better but i cant seem to stop loving him
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reader, ecstasy +, writes (12 January 2009):
hi, sorry for what happened with you...im sure you are confused as hell right now but i personally feel hes just taking advantage of your state of mind.... you have mentioned ample of times in your question that you bought him stuff, did things for him.... sweety thats what love is about either you shouldnt have gone all this way and now that you have, dont feel bad about it cuz whatever you did then was accordingly to how you felt and doing things for him made you happy as well. ask your self this one question would you have felt the same if you wouldnt have done so much for him? once you get the answer you ll know why there is the confusion and pain.... as far as seeing him is concerned.... get away from him for a while just to see if he misses you... wants you back... still if he doesnt try to get in touch with you its very clear he doesnt feel the same way.... sometimes forever might last just a few days!!! one more thing you can do.... talk to him asking him clearly what is he expecting out of the current relationship/friendship you guys have.... dont try to read minds... having a conversation makes it simple.........! all the best!
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