His mother treats him badly. How can I help my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost over 2 years not and he has a lot of problems with his mother. at the age of 12 she sent him to military school for no reason.. it ruined him. he still cries when he's alone. He is now forced to sleep ...
A. 30 May 2011: My heart goes out to both your boyfriend and you; it's not easy to watch somebody you care about self-destruct. You feel the most powerless person in the world. This subject is far too great for you to tackle on your own and your boyfriend cannot... (read in full...)
How long should I wait to start a new relationship?
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend of 18 months about 3 weeks ago, and last week I met someone I really really like. People say you should wait a while to try and get over your ex but I feel like I am done with her - I dont think about her(excluding ...
A. 29 May 2011: You cannot set a time limit on the amount of time each individual should wait before they enter another relationship. Yes, you were with your ex-girlfriend for quite a long time but you have stated you're over her and so she isn't an issue (not ... (read in full...)
I am only attracted to older men
Q. Hi. I am only attracted to older men and that's not an exaggeration. For an attraction to be there there has to be a mature age (40-50). I have tried going out with guys my own age and I just was never turned on or excited by them. If I am with an ...
A. 29 May 2011: Hello :) The crucial part of your question was where you informed us that upon forcing yourself to date younger men, you did not enjoy it. At the end of the day, shouldn't this be an intrinsic part of any relationship? There is nothing wrong wi... (read in full...)
He wants to try oral but I don't want to
Q. I just turned 15 in February my boyfriend just turned 14 in may well im a virgin and we have been going for three weeks now. He says he wants to eat me out but the thing is I dont really want him to should I let him do it? ...
A. 29 May 2011: The most important part of this question was this: "I dont really want him to..." That should be the answer to your problem, sweetheart. If you have any doubts or you're not 100 per cent comfortable, there is no way you can proceed and do this.... (read in full...)
She constantly brags about her daughter. It wears me down. What can I say to her?
Q. I have a friend that constantly brags about how "advanced" his daughter is. It's incredibly annoying, and not even true. I find her very unfriendly and she doesn't even say a word to me at all. Why do people do this? What can I say, so I don't have...
A. 28 May 2011: Lets be honest, to a mother or father, their child is the most prettiest, handsome, intelligent child of them all. No other child can compete with their greatness. I think it's a part of being a parent - not necessarily lying about their child but ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of ideas . Can you share some of your suggestions on how to give my friend nice surprises to make him smile?
Q. Hi! I like surprising my boyfriend, as I love to show him just how much I love him, as well as saying it and more importantly. I enjoy the outcome of these special moments we have together! However I'm running out of ideas now and want to hear...
A. 28 May 2011: I'm really sorry if these are of no help to you at all but I'll just charge ahead with them anyways :) - Surprise him with a picnic. Take a blanket and pack some of his favourite snacks and the like. If it's not a nice day then do it indoors! -... (read in full...)
My husband's sperm count is too low but he thinks the doctor is lying!
Q. hi,i have been trying for a baby for 7 years but nothing happened so the docter decided that we do some test mine was fine bur it turned out my husband cant have kids and theres nothing that can be done his sperm count is too low no treatment can ...
A. 28 May 2011: It's quite clear your husband is in self-denial at this stage in time. The fact that he cannot produce a child has probably belittled his self-esteem as a man and made a massive impact on his ego.
I sincerely doubt that the doctor was lying or... (read in full...)
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