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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I am only attracted to older men and that's not an exaggeration. For an attraction to be there there has to be a mature age (40-50).I have tried going out with guys my own age and I just was never turned on or excited by them. If I am with an older guy it feels like a hyper sexual experience even if they're not that good or selfish or something.Does anyone have any experience of this and did they grow out of it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2011): hi, im nearly 21 and my partner is 45 and i have never been happier, i have known him for over a year and we just 'happened' at first i thought i was stupid and immature for thinking a 25 year age gap would work and i was so scared about what other people might think but now i really do not give a monkeys what other people think because i am so happy and we have so much in common
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 May 2011):
 there's nothing wrong with being attracted to older men. I prefer men in their late 30s early 40s to my 51!
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reader, EccentricOrbit  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Hello :)The crucial part of your question was where you informed us that upon forcing yourself to date younger men, you did not enjoy it. At the end of the day, shouldn't this be an intrinsic part of any relationship? There is nothing wrong with dating an older man. I'll be honest, there probably will be some social stigma attached but if you're only attracted to men in that age group, it doesn't matter. You're a young girl and you shouldn't put yourself in situations you're not comfortable with. Live your life happily and it's possible you may grow out of it, yes, but you may not.Lots of people date more mature and older men or women because they find people their own age to be too immature.However, I didn't agree with the part where you stated that the men you're with aren't always good or nice. You deserve better than that. Don't lower your standards simply because you're attracted to them.All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): i am the same im 23 and only go out with guys 30-40 i dont know if i will grow out of it but i hope not
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