How do we tell our friend that his girlfriend is cheating without everything blowing up in our faces?
Q. Hi. Any advice given on this would be greatly appreciated or anybodys oppinions or view points. Im in university, have a great group of girls that im close to and i have a wonderful boyfriend that ive been with for a year and a half. However i ...
A. 30 March 2011: This is really tough one! I would suggest you find a third person who is a close friend or relative of your boyfriend's best friend who also knows this other girl and tell him/her all the necessary details. You could then ask him to tell him about ... (read in full...)
Why do I miss someone who I was allowing to tear my life to bits?
Q. okay so i broke away from a girl a couple months ago who was a liar, entitled, promiscuous and bloody selfish. finally my life is getting back to normal. but then....why do i still miss her??? i mean, i know in my mind that i am conjuring up an ...
A. 3 March 2011: I have been going post-breakup greaving phase for almost two months now and I can honestly see the image of my thoughts during the first month in your post here. Since I have decided that it is better to move on with my life, it is beginning to get ... (read in full...)
Am I really such a difficult and overcomplicated person?
Q. Dear Aunts, I beg you to read my post (which unfortunately I could not find other way of making it short as feel all details are important). I will appreciate your advice to enable me see the better picture out the situation that me and girlfriend ...
A. 5 August 2010: Thanks to those aunts who have taken the time to read my long post and post back with some good comments- very much appreaciated. As for the question from tennisstar88-yes it is a little early for me to get married but I am taking this as part of my ... (read in full...)
My wife cheated on me... and it's on tape... but I love her. What do I do?
Q. I am 31 I’ve been married for almost 4 years and I known my wife for 6 years and we have a beautiful 3 years old girl, and we have a second one on the way, but I have learn something very horrible and I do not know what to do, I truly love my wife ...
A. 14 November 2008: Brother, My heart is with you. All I can promise you is that what you have just discovered is a can of worms which might take you a life-time to analyse and understand the situation...if you are that courageous to continue living with your wife. ... (read in full...)
My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?
Q. My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...
A. 9 September 2008: Mmmh! I can just imagine the unbearable pain you are going through now. Regardless of whether she decides to take an abortion or bear the child, that woman is no longer the right one for you. And I agree with the other poster that it would take an ... (read in full...)
My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. I want her back! What should I do?
Q. I am looking for what to do? My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. She also left me with our two kids. She says that i don't make her happy anymore. I love her so much that i don't know how to take it. I had to quit my job to take care of ...
A. 2 September 2008: My sincere empathy for what you are going through. It must be difficult but as man, you need to approach it with some composure. Since she has already made a decision to leave after the cheating with your friend, then I guess there is little you can ... (read in full...)
What can I do to strenghten my relationship with my parents?
Q. I am 40 and have a family of my own. About 20 years ago, against my parent's wishes, I attended University which led to split between us for about 10 years. About 10 years ago I realized that I needed to make an effort to re-unite with my parents ...
A. 1 September 2008: That's difficult situation. I also grew up in a situation that somehow resembles yours. My parents were divorced when I was hadly a two-year. They both got married to other persons and I had to stay with my grand parents until when I was a teenager ... (read in full...)
Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a bad or good thing?
Q. Is saying no to sex when you don't feel like it a good or a bad thing? Sure you don't feel like it so why shouldn't you say no? But is that the sort of way you'd like your partner to treat you when you're the one wanting it? Personally if ...
A. 18 April 2008: A reasonably sound reason must be given as to why she can not have sex with you when you feel like consumating your relationship with her. Otherwise it is purely a selfish behaviour of not thinking as to what that implies to the other person. ... (read in full...)
I love to have sex with my wife, but lately, I have found that I have a "window of opportunity" to when it can be done.
Q. I love to have sex with my wife, but lately, I have found that I have a "window of opportunity" to when it can be done. The only time she will be in the mood is between 7:00pm and 8:00pm after she has come home from work, had dinner, and does...
A. 18 February 2008: I am so sorry for what you are going through. You do have my simpathy as I also had gone through some serious marriage misery recently as well. From what you are saying, it is not clear how long long this has been going on in your marriage but fro... (read in full...)
My wife and mother of my child admitted she has been cheating accusing the fact she's been feeling neglected. Now I doubt her fidelity during the 2 years she spent abroad. What can you advise?
Q. Hello everyone, I just came across this site some few days ago as part of my grieving for what has dramatically happened in my marriage of four years now. Looking at the questions and the invaluable advice that has been given to other people in ...
A. 1 February 2008: I am the original poster of the this questions and let me take this opportunity to thank the three colleagues who gave me quite good advise. I have somehow recovered from this heartbreaking reality done a test with my daughter to ascertain my ... (read in full...)
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