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Why are some age differences okay in dating, but not others?

Q.   Why is it ok for a 50 yo man to date a 30 yo woman, being 20 years apart? but yet a 21 yo man can not date a 16 yo girl, when that is only five years. Or even a 18 yo man and 16 yo girl. If they got caught the guy would go to jail...Why is that?...

A.   14 November 2008: Because when your 16, you are still a child and aren't mature enough to realize what the consequences of your actions are. When your 50 dating a 30 year old, you're both grown adults and a whole lot smarter than you were when you were 16. At 16 ... (read in full...)

My friend is worried that she might be pregnant... is she?

Q.   There are two people that I know that were having nonpenetration sex the girl was naked and the boy was wearing clothes. The boy pre-ejaculated during sex. By any chance could the girl get pregnant? My friend is disturbed......

A.   12 November 2008: yes, if "it" was inside and not touching "skin on skin contact" then she is definitely not pregnant. ... (read in full...)

My friend is worried that she might be pregnant... is she?

Q.   There are two people that I know that were having nonpenetration sex the girl was naked and the boy was wearing clothes. The boy pre-ejaculated during sex. By any chance could the girl get pregnant? My friend is disturbed......

A.   10 November 2008: the main question is whether or not the guy actually was touching the girl with his "private member" . if there was skin on skin contact, then YES, it is possible. if his pants were on and zipped up , lol, then she's not pregnant. but u can get ... (read in full...)

If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct?

Q.   If a person cuts class is it consider as a felony, crime, academic misconduct, or behavior misconduct? Could a cut be cleared and erased? Will this go on my permanent record? I really don't want this on my permanent record. I cutted class only once ...

A.   1 November 2008: i skipped school for 3 days in a row one time in my junior year of high school and got busted when my principal called home to check on me and unfortunately my mom was at home on lunch break! i got detention for it, but it never affected my record ... (read in full...)

My step brother's ex and I like each other, is this OK?

Q.   Well where to start, I have fell in love with my stepbrother's Ex-girlfriend that he does have a kid with. At first we was just friends and as time had gone on we both became each sounding board. One day we started talking about our feeling abou...

A.   29 October 2008: i know you have feelings for her, but ( this is just my opinion) but she is someone that is off limits. if you date her , your brother would definitely not like it, and it may very well come between your alls relationship, a lot of it has to do ... (read in full...)

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

Q.   i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

A.   29 October 2008: i'm so sorry to hear your going through this. from everything that you have said, it sounds very, very, very suspicious to me. it sounds like she is DEFINITELY hiding something for sure. and i'm a firm believer in trusting your gut feelings, if ... (read in full...)

I really need some help with the age gap!

Q.   right I need help quick! I have just turned 18 and I started to talk to this girl on msn and on the phone she lives 10 minutes away from me and I started to really like her but I forgot to ask her age and I just asked her and found out..... s...

A.   28 October 2008: i would not meet with her because you could get into trouble because of the age difference. if her parents find out that you met and they don't approve of it, then no matter if you two do anything sexual or not, they can say that you did and you'll ... (read in full...)

How much sex is normal / usual for a couple after 10 years?

Q.   I want to know how much sex is normal for a couple after being married for 10 years.Give me realisitic figures please.Thank you....

A.   28 October 2008: it really depends on yours and your husbands sex drive. whether or not you have children can affect it also. i myself have been married for almost 11 yrs and normally have sex 2 to 3 times a week. it may be different for different people. we ... (read in full...)

What to do to make it up to my close friend after kissing her boyfriend?

Q.   basically i feel like a car crash would be the best punishment for me now. i feel so bad about myself. last night i kissed my close friend's boyfriend.I have known her since we were 9. our families were close together. She's been with her boyfrie...

A.   26 October 2008: stop being so hard on yourself, u just have to realize that you have made a bad mistake of kissing your best friends boyfriend, it's already happened , you know it shouldn't have happened, but IT DID, and theres not anything that you can do to go ... (read in full...)

My 5 year old sister who lives with me and my girlfriend, has started asking me questions about birds and bees. I feel she is too young to know, what shall I do?

Q.   My sister (who's 5) lives with me and my girlfriend (for personal reasons.) She keeps asking me sexual questions. Once she ask me what a blow job was. I told her that when its someone get paid to blow on stuff. She's way too young to know about this ...

A.   26 October 2008: i have 2 daughters of my own, one is 6 and the other is 3. so i know exactly your situation because my 6 yr old who was 5 at the time came home asking about sexual questions and i totally thought she was too young too understand or to be told about ... (read in full...)

I can't get passed his relationship with his cousin. I want to go back to my ex but I am engaged. Who do I choose ?

Q.   I met this guy about 3 years ago and we dated for a long time, i found out he was cheating on me with his cousin 4 months into the relationship. I was furious and broke it off. I got back with him, but in between i met this wonderful man. Hes older ...

A.   24 October 2008: if i were in your shoes, i would break off the engagement right away. i know that is easier said than done, but you will never be able to fully trust him after what he has done to you. and without trust in a relationship, there really is no ... (read in full...)

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