Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?
Q. I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...
A. 5 June 2008: I would like to recommend a book for you to read, it completely relates to your (and my) situations..... I just finished it this evening and it blew my mind; it will absolutely give you some uncanny insight on your relationship. (I mean nail ... (read in full...)
He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?
Q. I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am ...
A. 5 June 2008: I would like to recommend a book for you (and possibly) your boyfriend to read, it completely relates to your (and my) situations..... I just finished it this evening and it blew my mind and it will absolutely give you a new perspective on your ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?
Q. I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...
A. 2 June 2008: Yeah, I completely understand what you are feeling... once again been on both sides of the coin. In my situation I was the exact same way, I treated her amazingly and spent a lot of time with her, but the emotional component was lacking. I knew it ... (read in full...)
Had sex with the ex and current boyfriend, both unprotected, now I'm pregnant, I don't know what to do?
Q. Hello! I'm a 23 year old college student. My boyfriend broke up with me to go back to his ex, and by my own nature of not wanting to be alone I returned to my ex boyfriend as well. I was on my period for the first week that my ex and I started...
A. 30 May 2008: Yes, it is possible to get a paternity test while pregnant but is strongly ill-advised....
"Chorionic Villus Sampling (CVS)
Chorionic Villus Sampling is usually performed at very early stages of pregnancy, generally around the 8th to 13th week... (read in full...)
Is getting really wet bad/nasty?
Q. i am wondering.. is getting really wet bad/nasty?? like i mean really. i haven't been horny lately but i guess i was and this boy fingered me and he was like my fingers are so wet while he was doing it.. so is that a bad thing?? im really ...
A. 30 May 2008: Its not a bad thing in the slightest, and there is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about... if anything you have inflated your boyfriends ego quite a bit... Have fun, and be safe!... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex, he says he is unable to commit to me, what should I do?
Q. I'm going out with a guy who describes himself as "emotionally unavailable" and doesn't want to commit to being in a relationship. He said he's not sure what it is exactly but it could be a combination of some or all of the following: -He's sti...
A. 30 May 2008: I have been on both sides of this equation, and let me tell you it is not fun... When I was the emotionally unavailable one it really sucked because I really liked the girl I was with, but she wanted me to be in love with her. I couldn't really ... (read in full...)
Tell me, why would they get married?
Q. my sex partner has a babymom that comes to his house on the weekend. his son is 11 years old witch he loves and will do anything for.on the other hand he is involve with a younger lady which he loves to make LOVE to, he seems to care about the ...
A. 30 May 2008: The simple fact here is he has a kid, which he is willing to do anything for... even marry a woman he doesn't care for much anymore (he might, but it doesn't sound like it). You are the woman on the side, and it is your best interest to just step ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!
Q. I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...
A. 30 May 2008: She is obviously showing you signs that she isn't as committed to your relationship as you want her to be for some reason. I agree with a previous poster suggesting that you sound like you are attempting to control her attempting to keep the ... (read in full...)
I want to feel an orgasm. Am I doing something wrong?
Q. okay--so i've been having sex for a while, and i still dont think i've "came" yet. i mean it gets really wet, but thats just an atomatic reaction. i constantly feel like i need to pee durring sex, and i almost feel like if i let my "vag" muscles go ...
A. 30 May 2008: Have you been able to orgasm by masturbating, because you will know when you have one! I have often heard women tell me that when they were just starting to become sexually active they couldn't orgasm with their partner until they had learned how to ... (read in full...)
Why do we have to reach the 'break up' part for them to realize their true feelings? And is this just me or does this happen to other people?
Q. I have had this situation happen with me with most of my serious ex-girlfriends.... One of us will break up with the other, but we will still remain in contact for the one of the usual reasons (still like/love one another, aren't finding anyone else ...
A. 29 May 2008: I would like to thank everyone for their responses, they have both insightful and a delight to read.... Keep them coming!... (read in full...)
He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?
Q. I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am ...
A. 29 May 2008: Whyumustloveme,
I have been on both ends of this sword, and I will admit to you that it is extremely difficult to stay with someone who cannot open up to you after "enough" time has gone by. I have had several girlfriends, who due to previous... (read in full...)
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