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It makes me feel like looking at other women is turning him on and trying to make out that I'm turning him on.

Q.   My husband holds my hand in public and very affectionate, but still looks at other women and teenage girls. Also he tries to grope me in public. It makes me feel like looking at other women is turning him on and trying to make out that im turning ...

A.   5 May 2011: I think your instincts are dead on. You're the play thing for his fantasy. Knowing that however, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you and doesn't find you arousing he does, otherwise he would not have married you. Talk with him about it and let ... (read in full...)

He wants me to be one of those women who cleans the house and have dinner ready for their husbands; but I have a full job with a lot of stress and responsibilities.

Q.   My relationship is going downfall. My bf and I don't get along. We disagree on pretty much everything. He is conservative, I am liberal, he plans everything, I live by the moment, he likes to eat at home, I like to eat out, he watches reality ...

A.   5 May 2011: Hi. I empathize with where you're coming from. My fiance of a three year relationship just broke it off a few months before the wedding. Crushed as I am at 32, I do believe I can start over again and find the one. You should never com... (read in full...)

After all boyfriend has done to me I don't know why I'm still holding on!

Q.   Hello, and thank you... First of all I'm very much still in love with my bf but I'm starting to give my head a shake. After all he has done to me, I don't know why I'm still hanging on. Its been a roller coaster ride from the beginning....

A.   4 May 2011: Leave him. This is a classic cycle of control. He is angry (possibly violent), makes you feel bad and subordinate, then walks on egg shells to keep you from leaving and is appologetic, wonderful and caring until he turns into Mr. Hyde again. It ... (read in full...)

Fiance wants an occasional threesome and I can't handle it!

Q.   i need help. my fiance and i just planned to get married. everything goes so well, i mean we went through many obstacles all the way here. but then he mentioned he would want threesome with me and another girl occasionally. i can't handle it. but he ...

A.   4 May 2011: Leave him. If he refuses to respect your wishes, you can either yield or end the relationship. Any other choice and you'll end up on a long dark path. ... (read in full...)

I want to have a threesome but he has cheated in the past...

Q.   I want to have a three sum with the man im planning on spending the rest of my life with. I trust that we can find someone that we are both comfortable with but... He has cheated in the past (we have gotten over it) an i have some issues with him ...

A.   4 May 2011: Yes. Mainly because you're not over him cheating (you're not to blame, he is, but the fact is he violated your trust and you can't trust him fully now), hence the issues over him checking out other females. Ask yourself this, if you had a ... (read in full...)

What do you do when the sex isn't there and there's no way to talk through things?

Q.   How do you deal with your confused feelings when your in a relationship with a man you truly truly love and care for but the Sex isn't there anymore and there is no hope of talking through it (trust me already tried) and i would never cheat on him ...

A.   4 May 2011: I'm pretty sure this is how my fiance of three years felt about me. If you didn't have a different name posted, I would have thought it to be her. If you really have tried everything else, break it off. Be quick, it will suck no matter how you do ... (read in full...)

I just want a nice guy in my life but how can I when I'm still messed up over my ex?

Q.   hey there, so ok ive had some really bad relationships in my past and i hate being alone but i dont know how to find a great guy that wont hurt me...since i cant find a good guy i always seem to catch myself doing things with guys just so ill have...

A.   4 May 2011:  Take a moment. Ask yourself if you really want a, "Good guy". Boring, dependable, does nice things for you, makes you feel cared for, wants to stay home with you, read, watch tv, snuggle. Most times people want what they don't have. Your ex is ... (read in full...)

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