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Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

Q.   ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...

A.   15 December 2009: thankyou 1605:) lol and anonymous i apreciate your input!... (read in full...)

Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

Q.   ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...

A.   29 November 2009: acually Miamine, i decided that i wasn't going to force him into anything he didn't want to do, and we ended up not doing it afterall. so please, if you could the comments about " not thinking about what he wants " i'd really appreciate it:)... (read in full...)

When having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?

Q.   just a general question, when having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?...

A.   28 November 2009: no, it is not unusual at all!... (read in full...)

Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

Q.   ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in ...

A.   28 November 2009: thankyou anonymous, but the problem is that we acually have done it in the car before:/ and he enjoyed it last time:(... (read in full...)

Should I Allow My Boyfriend to Swing?

Q.   I've been in a wonderful relationship with my bf for 16 yrs. People remark how close we are, how loving we are to each other. We do everything together including our work. We have a great sex life and family life. He's always there for me and ...

A.   11 November 2009: okay, well heres my outlook. love is not something that you can turn on and off. either you love someone or you don't. How is it possible that he loves you when he is having sex with you, and that he still loves you when hes having sex with someone ... (read in full...)

When having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?

Q.   just a general question, when having first time sex how long does the guy usually last?...

A.   11 November 2009: no offense to the people under me, but it has nothing to do with his age. to be truthful, it all depepends on the amount of times they masturbate. the more a guy masterbates, the longer amount of time it takes him to cum each time.... (read in full...)

Teenage LDR: any suggestions?

Q.   heres the scenario.. we are both 16, in highschool, met when we were 14, have been dating for almost two years, i switched to a different highschool and we've been fine. I believe we are in love, we never have the stupid problems all of our frien...

A.   10 November 2009: thankyouu so much! and we see eachother as much as possible but he is very dedicated in hockey and travels alot. however we do communicate very well always!and hey i guess we should like the fact that we know exactly what our guys are doing when ... (read in full...)

Am I considered too clingy in my LDR?

Q.   Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and are in a LDR. I don't want her to think I'm to clingy. I ask her to keep me updated what she's doing throughout the day but not every second like what she's eating or anything. I just ...

A.   22 September 2009: from a girls point of view, i am in love with my boyfriend, and he does travel alot, and he does act alot like you do. sometimes a few hours without talking can be refreshing..it gets her to think about you..and miss you. if you are talking ... (read in full...)

I need your opinion here... AM I still a virgin?

Q.   AM I still a virgin? Me and my boyfriend tried having sex but when he put it in alil it hurt really bad so i made him stop. But also he's had multiple partners and knew what he was doing. But I wanna know how to make the next time we try not hurt. ...

A.   22 September 2009: well..technically you aren't still a virgin..but hun the first time is always going to hurt. its completely normal, if you're concerned about that you should get him to finger you more before you do it. if that doesn't work, your going to have to ... (read in full...)

I love two guys and it doesn't feel good!

Q.   At the beginning of this year I got into a relationship with a boy i'd liked for ages, we lasted five months and througought that he cheated on me three times and put us on a break for two weeks, i broke up with him in june and the only reason i ...

A.   13 August 2009: well, it sounds to me that you're more in love with your current boyfriend.if this is true..then you've got to tell him what's going on..trust me it's for the best, and if you guys were really meant to be together, he will forgive you for kissing ... (read in full...)

I havent been able to talk to my girlfriend for 3 months, I don't know what to do!

Q.   i have a girlfriend of a relationship of 1 and 1/2years .i love her but for 3 months now she has been out of network and we don't communicate ,at first she started ignoring my calls later she switch off her phone.i don't know what to do coz i ...

A.   13 August 2009: are you guys still in a relationship? if so..you need to realize how important she is to you..and i promise if you really do love her it will stop you from getting other girls. and if you are still worried, dont put your self in situtations that... (read in full...)

Harrassment!

Q.   Why is my so called ex-boyfriend harrassing me after accusing me of things which were wrong about me and he had to apologise, so then i let him know i had seen his facebook account and the reason he would not add me(other women and ex girlfriends) ...

A.   12 August 2009: well hun, im gonna come right out and say it. hes a downright scumbag. ex boyfriends usually are. i suggest you just end all communication with him. dont try to get even or anything, it will just come back to you. just let him life his life and live ... (read in full...)

She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?

Q.   My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" ...

A.   12 August 2009: ok well, i promise you that shes mad at the fact that your saying she needs to lose weight behind her back. not that she wants you to do it to her face either, but she probably wouldve prefered for you to drop slight clues about her weight and just ... (read in full...)

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