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reader, dindestress  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 no, it is not unusual at all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): it all depends. some last longer than others. some may ejaculate prematurely. quick orgasms are a little boring. the longest a guy lasted for me was 5mins first time.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 November 2009):
I was joking about 12 seconds...well on some ocassions it's not a joke. If he's inexperienced and doesn't masturbate shortly before, then he'll last a few minutes. Really though, all a guy needs to do is last long enough for you to have an orgasm.
And for Seadansr--47 minutes and 5 hours? There must have been breaks inbetween, because no woman would want to even have sex for that that long for either of those times.
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reader, Mis.Natalie +, writes (11 November 2009):
 well my friend from my point of view they last like about 3 to 5 minutes because of course its there first time ..
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reader, Seadansr +, writes (11 November 2009):
It depends on if he is a virgin or not and if he masterbates regularly. My first time i was so wanting to impress her that i read books and prepped myself. Final out come - 47 minutes before i came. Now i have expr. I have lasted up to 5 hrs before the moment
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reader, dindestress +, writes (11 November 2009):
no offense to the people under me, but it has nothing to do with his age. to be truthful, it all depepends on the amount of times they masturbate. the more a guy masterbates, the longer amount of time it takes him to cum each time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): Not very long usually for any man of any ages first time (if he is younger though especially) which you will probably think a blessing if its your first time too (as it will most likely be painful) I assure you though it does get easier/better.
I would be concerned however if you are aged 13-15 and hope that this isn't something that you feel forced into/or are rushing into. You need to be in a committed relationship, one that you feel comfortable enough in to talk about sexual matters especially safe sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso it's unusual for a guy to last longer than that? is it a bad thing if a guy does last longer than that? it seems abnormal...?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (11 November 2009):
12 seconds if you're lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2009): If a guy is 15 and going for his first time, if he actually lasts until he's 'in' it's amazing. Think of the amount of time between when you see lightning and hear the thunder.
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