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anonymous
writes:AM I still a virgin? Me and my boyfriend tried having sex but when he put it in alil it hurt really bad so i made him stop. But also he's had multiple partners and knew what he was doing. But I wanna know how to make the next time we try not hurt.I get fingered and oral, etc. I was turned on but it still hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): I agree with nabs virginity isn't important. Lubricant might help but it's still going to hurt no matter what.
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reader, dindestress +, writes (22 September 2009):
 well..technically you aren't still a virgin..but hun the first time is always going to hurt. its completely normal, if you're concerned about that you should get him to finger you more before you do it. if that doesn't work, your going to have to tough it out for the first real time..it only gets better!:)
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reader, called Steve  +, writes (22 September 2009):
 Sounds like you're really anxious... therefore not really ready.
Take your time, use protection and dont rush, rushing will be regretful later as you wont have enjoyed it so much...
Be careful...
Steve S
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reader, Nabs92 +, writes (22 September 2009):
Hi :)In my opinion virginity is not important, just really a state of mind.Would you call your encounter sex? If not, then you could say you are still a virgin. If you feel like you are not a virgin, then ok. It honestly does not matter.And yes, it's going to hurt a bit. Be gentle, take it slow. Don't push it. Maybe take it just a little bit further each time.Obviously use a condom, but you already know that.
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