Was I wrong to finally snap and publicly humiliate and insult someone who had been talking trash about me for over a year?
Q. Hi. I am looking for advice on whether I did the right thing or not. My boyfriend has this girl friend, who I have only met a handful of times, who has a lot of animosity toward me. I had always been really nice to her the times I ran into her. When ...
A. 18 February 2013: You had every right to do what you did. Sometimes you have to be a bitch to get your point across. Like you said, you tried to be friendly with her and it didn't seem to work. She was probably sitting back and laughing at you, thinking you didn't ... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex. What is wrong with me?
Q. its been six months now i really love him . i have tried everything .friends jobs even family .i have read books .posted on line . used the no contact . even if i didn't matter to him . he would have called me even once he took me out of his life ...
A. 18 February 2013: I would suggest writing in a journal to let all of your emotions out. (Facebook should not be that journal!) Sit down in private, and just write down exactly how you feel, your experience with him, etc. Writing down my thoughts truly helped me get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's family hates me and are constantly putting me down. I don't know what to do...
Q. My boyfriend's family are very judgmental and take any benign and often positive information they can dig about me and put a negative spin on it. They twist reality in such a way so that nothing I say or do is good enough. If they hear anything ...
A. 18 February 2013: First off, tell your boyfriend to grow a pair and set his family straight! In case he hasn't already, he needs to stick up for you and let them know that their behavior will not be tolerated. If they cannot respect you, or even bother giving you a ... (read in full...)
How do you go about being a stepmother?
Q. Hello everyone, for the past year I have been in a discreet relationship with a divorced father. We are serious about each other and have decided that it is time to be open about our relationship. I have never met his children, but based on how ...
A. 18 February 2013: Yes, the divorce was amicable in a sense where he and his ex wife get along for the sake of their kids. It was not one of those messy, bitter divorces, but they did have their differences. What married couple doesn't?
Thank you :)... (read in full...)
I don't want to be his fallback girl while he looks for his fantasy woman!
Q. Where to begin? My issues with this relationship have been ongoing. The guy and I were friends and coworkers when we first got together, a rebound relationship after his devastating divorce and subsequent lay-off left him crushed. I was needy too, ...
A. 18 February 2013: It sounds like this guy doesn't know what he wants. One minute he's with you then the next he is partying in Vegas? Sounds a bit shady. You see, he told you to move on but how can you if he continues to contact you, especially on Valentine's Day? I ... (read in full...)
Can there be ONLY friendship between men and women?
Q. I have a bf and he is very outgoing, talkative, and humorous... I'm attracted to him because I'm not that out-going, at times shy, so I find him very charming. But what I don't understand is, he seems to have a lot of female friends, and wou...
A. 18 February 2013: Yes, it is possible for men and women to be just friends. Ever since high school I have had nothing but male friends. It's a personal choice, as I have had bad experiences with having female friends. To be hoenst, some, not all, women are drama... ... (read in full...)
How do you go about being a stepmother?
Q. Hello everyone, for the past year I have been in a discreet relationship with a divorced father. We are serious about each other and have decided that it is time to be open about our relationship. I have never met his children, but based on how ...
A. 18 February 2013: As requested, I will elaborate a bit more. He is 49 and has been divorced for 2 years. The kids are 16, 15, 13 and 10. They have a close relationship with both parents and from what I know, the youngest absolutely adores her father.
Thank... (read in full...)
The relationship almost seems too good to be true but I can't risk getting hurt again!
Q. Hi everyone I have been dating a man for a couple of months now. We had an instant connection which niether of said we'd ever felt before. We have the most wonderful time together. It almost seems too good to be true. I'm not sure but I think ...
A. 18 February 2013: Communication is key in any relationship. No one wants to get hurt or rejected so the best thing to do is to sit down with him and truly discuss how you are both feeling. Be honest because it can and may bring the two of you closer together, and ... (read in full...)
My away from home soldier boyfriend gets upset about everything! What can I do?
Q. I am in a relationship with a currently deployed soldier. We love and respect each other very much. But the fact is, he tend to get mad for every single reason. For example, today he got mad over the fact that I want to go to the gym (because he ...
A. 18 February 2013: Trust is very important in any relationship. Without it, what do you have? It is understandable for your boyfriend to feel insecure about other guys trying to flirt with you, especially since he is away. However, if he trusts and loves you, he will ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't this guy replied to my facebook message?
Q. I added the guy I like on Facebook and all my friends have been telling me to message him, three weeks later after a lot of persuasion I sent him "Heyy (:" I sent this on Wednesday, he has been online since as he has added people and liked pages but ...
A. 18 February 2013: This may not be what you want to hear, but it doesn't seem like the guy feels you are important enough to even acknowledge. He could have at least said hello back, but he didn't. Sounds like a douche to be honest. Good luck! ... (read in full...)
What is the right age to get engaged?
Q. I know my question seems a little bland and broad, so let me try to rephrase... How old should a couple be when they get engaged for the first time? I am 18, currently and proudly dating a soon-to-be Marine. He hasn't been home for a few months. ...
A. 18 February 2013: "I believe that if the two are in the right mind and have been dating long enough to know that they get along and are really happy, it's fine!"
I think you answered your own question. Great mentality. :)... (read in full...)
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