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writes:its been six months now i really love him . i have tried everything .friends jobs even family .i have read books .posted on line . used the no contact . even if i didn't matter to him . he would have called me even once he took me out of his life like i was some kind of disease.it kills me to see my friends talking to their exs and these people were jurks still they ask about theme .people keep telling me to just let go .like i don't want to! i try with all of my heart that it hurts it takes one word to break me and i start over and broke that i have getting so tired . something just feels wrong .how could he do it how could he move on .we were so good .even if its over how come he didn't miss me not even once .it hurts cause i saw it in his eyes that he loved me .deep down i know he loved me .if he has called me even once even once or just texed . i swear a god this would have been so much easier to me .i am a strong girl but this is killing me .i don't want him back . i understand very well but still feels weird.something else my friends my mom they just keep looking at me without saying a thing except that he is a good guy and that they don't know what happened .he promised me he would always be there for but he wasn't. How do I go on now?
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reader, imane +, writes (21 February 2013):
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reader, DeliriousOne  +, writes (18 February 2013):
I would suggest writing in a journal to let all of your emotions out. (Facebook should not be that journal!) Sit down in private, and just write down exactly how you feel, your experience with him, etc. Writing down my thoughts truly helped me get over an ex and move on to be the person I am today. Much like Mariab said, time and patience is key, and the best medicine.
Hope everything works out :)
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (18 February 2013):
 Hunny, you don't really have a choice here. He moved on and you have to do that too! Its hard but if you keep looking back and thinking of him, you are constantly making space for him in your mind and in your life! There is no easy solution!!! You just have to be patient and with time, I am sure you will meet a fab guy and this jerk will be nothing but a distant memory! I really hope you find your strength... you sound like a well grounded sensible girl and for this I really wish you well! Good luck xx
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