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I need advice about my boyfriend's family. I find them a bit difficult to cope with.

Q.   Hi - could really do with advice regarding my boyfriend and his family. I have been married before and my ex-husbands family made our relationship very difficult. They were very snobby and looked down on me and often picked fault. i felt so ...

A.   23 July 2008: Hi, I really feel for you as I can read the pain that this situation is causing you, infact two situations - your relationship and how it is going to progress and the family situation. I too longed for a family that would open up the wider family... (read in full...)

My Virgin Bride was not a Virgin. How do I cope?

Q.   Hi, like many other guys I have a problem with my wifes past. I met her 25 years ago, she was 17 and I was 19. we hit it off right from the start and fell in love. we now have 2 kids aged 10 and 12. Every thing was fine until I asked her...

A.   17 July 2008: If you love your wife with all your heart then understand it from her point of view - you should be flattered that you believed she was a virgin - imagine how she must have been feeling knowing that if she told you, you may well walk away - she ... (read in full...)

We are both 15, we love each other, have had sex already, he has a job, and he wants us to have a baby, when we turn 17, I am not sure about this, please give me advice about having a baby at this age"

Q.   hi! well my boyfriend and i akready had sex for the first time a month ago we are both 15, i am really happy wth him there isnt one day he doesnt tell me he loves me. well last night we were talking, he started a conversation about how he wanted to ...

A.   15 July 2008: Firstly, slow down..........gosh, you are going through alot of changes at the moment and thinking about bringing another person into the world is a HUGE commitment both emotionally and financially. You need to talk to your boyfriend about YO... (read in full...)

Diminishing relationship..How can I spruce it up? Help!

Q.   How can I spice up my relationship? Ive been with this guy for just over a year now but he seems to have lost interest. Its like hes too tired and pre-occupied to show me any attention. Im only young, in my early 20's...and feel i deserve to be ...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi, I'm really sorry to read how you are feeling, it is clear it is causing you alot of thought and pain. My immediate response would be to leave him, whilst you still have enough confidence and respect for yourself and find someone who is fun, ... (read in full...)

Sex or money??

Q.   ok, would you rather have a person that has good money that can support you but suck in bed OR have a person that pleasure you so good in bed that you can't help but be with them but they ask you once in a while if they could help you with a bill or ...

A.   17 June 2008: If sex if very important to you, then chose this first, you can always earn more money. If a guy is hopeless in bed and doesn't want to learn new tricks, it will never get better. Go for the love and sex I say.... (read in full...)

My husband thinks my vibrators are "dirty things" and he doesn't sleep with me

Q.   My husband and I have been together 3 years, married 8 months of those. We have 2 young children, my husband was very very keen to have a family hence why we had one so soon plus he is 10 years older than me. For the first 6 months, sex was ...

A.   17 June 2008: I would like to say a big thank you to everyone who responded, lots of thoughts have since occurred to me and despite a very short time of having sex since last writing (me pushing for it I add), it is back to the old routine of my husband just not ... (read in full...)

He keeps pushing me to perform sexual acts I'm not comfortable with, can you help?

Q.   I am engaged and have been with my fiance for just over a year. We have a loving relationship and things are mostly amazing. Recently tho he has been pushing me to perform sexual acts I am not comfortable doing. For example, right now he keeps ...

A.   24 May 2008: Hi, this sounds a difficult situation for both of you - clearly you are uncomfortable with things and this is understandable and you need to find some outside help to discuss it, a counsellor or your doctor could help? Your fiance too has his needs ... (read in full...)

My husband keeps contact with his ex. What should I do??

Q.   My husband and I have been together since college. We have two young children. Last year he contacted some friends including an ex-girlfriend from high school through reunion.com. I recently found out that he has been in contact with her this...

A.   2 December 2007: Hi, I really feel for you because you do not know what to do but feel you have to do something! Firstly, how strong is your marriage? Before you found this out, did you feel secure, strong and that the love between you and your husband made you ... (read in full...)

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