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*howstopper
writes:ok, would you rather have a person that has good money that can support you but suck in bed OR have a person that pleasure you so good in bed that you can't help but be with them but they ask you once in a while if they could help you with a bill or do you need some money for anything????
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Ah, just one thought that came to my mind. You can "train" a person to be better in bed, and the mere thought of it is nice. But you can also learn to make money. Necessity has been known to be the driving force of innovation and a very good way to temper the spirit. If anyone is bad in bed, I don't think that the chances of making him/her better are greater than the chances of finding a way to turn the person into an entrepreneur.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (17 June 2008):
I have my own answer for this question. I don't think you should have a relationship with anyone just because that person can pay your bills. I will give a very selfish reason for that: love life is extremely important, so it better be good. There's all to lose if you're with someone who gives you money but won't see the relationship as an adventure together. If I had to choose, of course I wouldn't choose money.
That said, it's obvious this is your call. Money or good sex? Only you can tell. This is an old question that has been answered so many times before. Many people have gone for money, many others have gone for love, and many of both groups have later regretted their decision or been extremely glad for it.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Why does either man need to be giving you money to help pay YOUR bills? You are responsible for your own bills, not them. The fact that one gives you lots of money and the other one only offers money every once in a while are both irrevelant. You need to stand on your own two feet finacially and pay you own dang bills!!!!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 June 2008):
 Why couldn't you teach the one who 'sucks' in bed what it is that pleases you and turns you on? Sometimes it takes a little patience and a willingness to be shown what to do. If you head to bed with the idea that sex is going to be boring or awful, it most certainly will be boring or awful.
Using a person for money doesn't sound like a very nice thing to me, but if there is genuine love for him/her, and a willingness to work on the aspects of the relationship that aren't working, then maybe you're on the right track.
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reader, Delightful  +, writes (17 June 2008):
If sex if very important to you, then chose this first, you can always earn more money. If a guy is hopeless in bed and doesn't want to learn new tricks, it will never get better.
Go for the love and sex I say.
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reader, countrygirlWV +, writes (17 June 2008):
 In my opinion money or sex should never matter its if they love u r not the other two is just a bonus.love and care should only b the things that matter.
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