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just a person with problems...we all got em'

I'm a good listener and can usualy provide insightful advice to others, but rarely do I follow my own :/

I'm a teen and wondering...is it normal to be horny all the time??

Q.   hey peeps! im in my late teens and i was just wondering if it is normal to be horny all the time. I could wake up and be horny and ive noticed that i masturbate at least twice a day everyday if not 3 times, im worried about myself!!...

A.   26 August 2006: Absolutly! You should worry when you DON"T have a sex drive as a teen. It's perfectly natural, and it will allow you to become comfortable with yourself sexualy, therefor making you an even better partner when you do decide to have sex.... (read in full...)

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...

A.   26 August 2006: lol i doubt a psychiatrist would really help :/ yeah it sucks. i know it's crazy, and wrong, and messed up. But almost everyone that posted on here with the problem knows that doesn't make it any easier...... (read in full...)

I think I _may_ have married too soon... My wife can't bear to be touched by me!

Q.   How do you tell the difference between settling down, and just settling? Married, and regretting it. Finding my wife and I are quite incompatible sexualy, and I often wonder whether I just gave up looking, and settled too early. I feel unwanted, and ...

A.   25 August 2006: Well here's the problem folks... We are in counceling right now, and a BIG part of me feels it's going to be futile. I'm close to giving her the old heave ho :/ and I hate it.... (read in full...)

He says he won't get a divorce for 2 years and wants no strings sex. Should I go for it?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for about four months, however he still lives with his ex, I wanted to wait till he moved out before we became serious, but he said he didnt want me to throw away what we had. I thought i loved him and things progress...

A.   24 August 2006: You answered your own question sweetie. If you don't feel 100% comfortable doing something that involves your emotional well being, don't do it! Look, if it's just sex you're looking for, it would be fine. But we all know sex can never be just sex, ... (read in full...)

Do other people interlock fingers during sex?

Q.   I recently slept with a male friend of mine (we aren't going to be dating, just messing around) but I've never had sex before this and was wondering if it's normal for a guy to hold your hands during sex. He was on top, and kept interlocking his ...

A.   24 August 2006: Part of being truly intimate. I aslo love being able to look directly into my partner's eyes as we make love. ... (read in full...)

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...

A.   24 August 2006: This is a letter that I wrote, but i never sent to her. I probably never will, but it just shows how screwed up I really am...lol ___________________________________________________________ I don't know where to begin. I don't know how to say th... (read in full...)

Handy Work!!

Q.   hi all i was just windering if anyone could tell me how to toss a lad off i don't ave a clue what to do.... plz help xxx...

A.   24 August 2006: You'd be surprised but chances are once you start it will come pretty naturaly (no pun intended :) If you're both open with eachother it will be a lot better if he tells you what feels good...... (read in full...)

What constitutes the 'ideal' relationship?

Q.   Hi All, This is a quick question... Can anyone give me their view on what constitutes the ideal relationship partner? Is mutual love, respect and commitment/loyalty enough?? Thanks tons, Miss Doubtful x...

A.   24 August 2006: No such thing as an IDEAL relationship . I suppose if the good out weighs the bad, and at the end of the day you can say, yeah, I'm happy... Sure there's the basic factors like sexual attratcion, emotional support, reliability, trust, inte... (read in full...)

Is it normal to get so wet?!

Q.   hello...i was just woundering if there is somthing wrong with me! I seem to get very wet down there! I find it really embarrsing when my BF fingers me or goes down on me...is this something to be concerned about or not...plz help me x ...

A.   24 August 2006: The wetter the better :) Definatly NOT a problem AT ALL!... (read in full...)

Don't Stand So Close To Me, I am the teacher and she is the student!

Q.   I really don't know how to explain this but i am attracted to a 15 year old girl who attends the school i teach at,i tried to keep it under wraps but shes realised and is playing on it. Shes not in my lessons, so for most of the year i hadn't even ...

A.   24 August 2006: Yeah that can't be good mate. I'm sure it's extremely tempting but aside from legal consequences, there's your career on the line. If you'll regret it, it's not worth it.... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my sister in law...

Q.   I love my siste in law what can I do? I was married 7 years ago and I am 30 now I have a son and love my wife. But I have 3 sisters in law but I feel love to one of them she is 22 now. I find this love when I feel her watching me and every t...

A.   24 August 2006: I must agree, and i'm in a similar situation. Regardless of HOW you may feel, thebottom line is some people you can never be with. I'm VERY attracted to my SIL, and we are VERY close. We know things about eachother our spouses will never know, and ... (read in full...)

How do I get a guy to notice me?

Q.   How can you get a guy to notice you when your 15 yrs old. I need advice....

A.   24 August 2006: Just be yourself around him. Any guy who can't appreciate you when you're just being real and genuine isn't worth the time of day.... (read in full...)

She hooked up with me then went back to her bf...but she still flirts with me What's up with this girl?

Q.   ok, i'm completely lost as to what to do or think. i met one of my current best friends back about 7 months ago. i introduced myself to her because i could tell she liked me, and i was very interested in her, too. but it initially took me a while ...

A.   24 August 2006: Sounds to me like she's VERY confused. Obviously you mean a lot to her, otherwise she wouldn't want to maintain ANY sort of relationship. I had a similar situation with a girl at one point. I basicaly chalked it up to her...keeping me around as a ... (read in full...)

All my guy friends always hook me up with thier friends, why dont they date me when they all say im hot!?

Q.   I am a 21 year old single female and have a lot of guy friends. I just got out of a serious relationship so I am not looking for something real serious. My problem is that it seems as though all my guy friends are never interested in me, even though ...

A.   24 August 2006: Relationships that come out of friendships can be great, or potentialy devistating. If it goes well, you feel an incredible connection with that person, on both a sexual and an emotional level. Esspecially if you're close, this can make things ... (read in full...)

Is my sexual obsession with my sister-in-law healthy... Or not?!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I really need to know if I am "normal" and if this problem I have is common among married men. Cut the story short, I have been having sexual fantasies about my wife's older sister for almost a year now. I'm so afraid its getting u...

A.   23 August 2006: Yup...same situation as most of you. I have been married for not more than six months, and sex with the wife is dismal at best. It's boring, uninspired and feels like she's performing a chore. We have had discussions and have even started ... (read in full...)

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