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Emancipation???

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28 November 2009: This may not be the case with all but I'm sure you'll some of it in your lives too... Well I belong to a country where for a girl/woman all lines start with "you are a girl/woman you are not suppose to...". All the constraints and limitations are ...

Help!!! How do I get him to notice me?

Q.   So there is this guy... I think he is so cute and sweet but i think he has changed since high school. Normally i wait till the guy notices me but he is this big hot shot in football at his college now and when he comes around he makes me so nervous ...

A.   5 January 2010: From what I've seen in my life, if you want a guy to notice you, start ignoring him. Chill out with other friends, show that you are cool and fun loving and his existence is unknown to you.... Hope this works with you too....... (read in full...)

How do I overcome all my problems?

Q.   Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small priva...

A.   28 December 2009: Hi :) There's just one simple solution for all this. LOVE YOURSELF!!! Tell yourself that you are handsome, the best and there is no one like you on earth(and all this is pretty much true). I believe you are the best, you should believe it ... (read in full...)

What should I do to make my partner happier?

Q.   i m inna relation with a guy 4m last 4yrs.we r age 20 now. i m a dental student from a educated family n he has just done his school but hav joined his family bissness. he is 4m an orthodox family. his family is really disapointed by him.his family ...

A.   26 December 2009: I agree with fishdish, now that the veil of infatuation is coming down you can see his true colors, start running in the opposite direction. Never ever let anyone abuse you under the cover of frustration... (read in full...)

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

Q.   I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

A.   23 December 2009: OK I've given him the freedom to decide for himself, but I would very much like to set a boundary I just don't know where to draw a line... (read in full...)

I feel pathetic coming to the internet for advice but here is my story!

Q.   hi... i feel really retarded and pathetic for coming to the internet for help but i honestly dont know what else to do. i guess i should start by saying im 19 and ive been "in love" with my best (guy) friend since my sophomore year of high sch...

A.   19 December 2009: Just one question, in these two years that you ignored him, did he remain single??? I feel he's lost interest in you(that is if he had any). Try and focus on other aspects of life instead of running behind this one guy you're not even sure about. ... (read in full...)

I broke it off but am now having second thoughts!

Q.   Hola... About a week-and-a-half ago, I gave my boyfriend a letter telling him that I think we should break up. The problem is, though, the more I think about it, I don't really think that I want to...I just kinda wanted to get some things off ...

A.   19 December 2009: Try this: Make a list of why would you want to hang around with this guy And make another about why do you want to break-up Think and write and try and figure out your own feelings. Break-ups are never easy whatever may be the reason for th... (read in full...)

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

Q.   I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

A.   14 December 2009: May be you are write Gina. Whenever I take out the topic of this girl and her awkward behavior towards him, he just brushes of my concerns by saying he won't let her cross her limits and he's not at all interested in her. Don't know what to do, b... (read in full...)

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

Q.   I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

A.   11 December 2009: It's been about two years....... (read in full...)

I broke up with him because of his manipulative ex, but now I don't know what to do!

Q.   I have a very complicated situation here. I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy. Now before I actually met him he had this female friend, I knew this girl was secretly in love with my bf. So he and I were just friends in the beginning ...

A.   3 December 2009: Hi Gina, here's an update, I asked him to grow up he says he'll need time, but I really don't know whether to give him time or not, I'm feeling like breaking up again.... Am I being too impatient...... (read in full...)

Emancipation???

Q.   This may not be the case with all but I'm sure you'll some of it in your lives too... Well I belong to a country where for a girl/woman all lines start with "you are a girl/woman you are not suppose to...". All the constraints and limitations are ...

A.   3 December 2009: Thanks Samii, its just such a lonely feeling to be out of the ordinary, but atleast some of you feel I'm right......... (read in full...)

He loves her, he likes me. Should I move on?

Q.   I think I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. I won't go into details, but I feel really strongly about him, but he loves this other girl, who has a boyfriend. He's admitted he likes me too. Every single one of our friends say it, even when ...

A.   28 November 2009: Try and get a mutual friend to tell him about this other girl's actual intentions. Don't you think he'll be hurt more by knowing that that girl was playing with him and knew it but didn't tell.... Just let him know the truth and then wait for him to ... (read in full...)

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