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Is he interested or am I misinterpreting everything?

Q.   Okay here goes, it will be long winded but I need to know once and for all, Im really losing my patience. About 5 months ago a new tenant moved into our house, hes very handsome and I was attracted to him instantly. Initially there was al...

A.   15 April 2011: I think he likes you but you are "too difficult" so he is doing what he can to make his life work for him. I dont know how you would go about being "serious" with him. ... (read in full...)

Found Dad's history of porn on computer. Should I confront him or tell my mum?

Q.   my mum and dad have been married for about 18 years and recently things have been a bit awkward. they have been arguing quite a bit and my mum even told me a few weeks ago that she was getting fed up of my dad because i was upset and said that i was ...

A.   14 April 2011: Leave it alone. Not your marriage. Work on your relationship with your dad. Your job is to love and honor your parents not to "help their marriage" Leave it alone, no good can come of this. ... (read in full...)

Do you believe in full disclosure?

Q.   This issue is really about how much someone should really share with their bf/gf. I'm not trying to be secretive for the sake of it. My boyfriend and I have had very, very different lives. His has been very normal and he hasn't gone through man...

A.   14 April 2011: If you asked yourself by telling him these details "How can this help us." You could get answers such as, he could know you, what you've been through and potentially Love you for who you really are, rather than what new people superficially se... (read in full...)

Recently discovered my BF is looking to hook up with men. I don't know what to do.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for quite some time.(3.5 years) Recently when i looked at the computers history I noticed he was looking at M4M ads on craigslist(maleformale) This disgusted me so much, but I was even more disgusted when I saw ...

A.   14 April 2011: Adios amigo. Seriously, why stay? He is cheating on you, with men. I'm no prude but I have to imagine that's 180º from what you want. You're young and he has to do what he feels he has to do. Adios amigo. ... (read in full...)

I'm beginning to hate her, why does she do this?

Q.   I know its very long but if you could please read and give me your opinions I would be most grateful!!! Ok so my mum...ever since I was little shes never really loved me like she should. She bought me plenty stuff and spoiled me rotten but this ...

A.   14 April 2011: You're a good man. Keep working on yourself. Eventually you will have to forgive her for what she has done and does. Try not to get involved with seeking her approval as she will keep "dragging you back" into the much and the morass. The fact ... (read in full...)

Someone told my best friend I fancy him; he said he already knew! What do I do now?

Q.   Hey! I have a problem. I finally let one of my friends tell my best guy friend I like him! The problem is when she told him,he didn't say anything other than he already knew! He flirts all the time, like eye contact and smiling at me constantly. ...

A.   14 April 2011: Find out what the hold up is... Guys in general are the pursuers so if they like someone and know that she likes him back, then when they "don't go for it" there is usually some good reason. Lack of experience, divided feelings, lack of interest... (read in full...)

Is it common to think about people other than your partner during sex/while masturbating?

Q.   Is it okay to fantasize and masturbate thinking about people other than your partner? (my guess would be that most people would say yes) But is it morally okay to think of other people while you're having sex with your partner? Is this something ...

A.   14 April 2011: Yes. ... (read in full...)

I met a girl through a personal ad and there's 8 years between us; I'm excited but concerned

Q.   Recently,I put a dating ad in the newspaper, and this girl replied who I really seem to like. However there's quite a big age gap. Im 29 and she is only 21. I've not had a girlfriend for 5 years now and have only really had one real relationshi...

A.   14 April 2011: Try it. ... (read in full...)

I do really want to go but dont want to break his heart. Should i go or stay???

Q.   Im 19 and have been in a relationship for 5 years, i do love my boyfriend but he doesn't get on with my family or friends and im not sure about us anymore. I feel that im so young and havn't really lived! My best friend who i do everything with has ...

A.   14 April 2011: Dont stay for his well being you will grow to resent and hate him. ... (read in full...)

I just found out my ex gf has been secretly going to see her ex when she was telling me she was visitng family and friends!

Q.   Found out my ex gf had been secretly going to her ex bf house when she was telling me she was visiting her mum, sick nan, friends etc.When I confronted her she got mad and denied cheating. Personally I think she was sleeping with him – if it was all ...

A.   14 April 2011: Let that bitch go. Since you live in a small community. Only speak positively of her and only tell the truth. It won't take too long for folks to figure out whats what. In the meantime get you a better one... And she was most likely cheating... (read in full...)

I saw my best friend's husband cheating on her!

Q.   Ok, so here's my problem. My bestfriend started dating this guy about three years ago. Pretty much that whole time there were rumors he was cheating on her. I told her many times that this was going on (not that it was necessarly true just that I ...

A.   14 April 2011: 90% chance that she doesnt want to know. With that said carefully ask her if she would like to know hypothetically and then go from there. What will most likely happen if you tell her both her and him will ostracize you and your hubby. Yo... (read in full...)

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