Not a player, but I'd like to be...
Q. I'm, 22, not a "player" or a guy who sleeps with loads of girls (in fact I've slept with 0) but I really want to be one, I don't feel like I am a man unless I have slept with a respectable amount of girls. Is this a good desire? I desperately want...
A. 12 April 2013: Yea, I guess it seems that way. Around friends I have to stop myself one upping things people say. I have to consciously stop myself, its like a reflex.... (read in full...)
Not a player, but I'd like to be...
Q. I'm, 22, not a "player" or a guy who sleeps with loads of girls (in fact I've slept with 0) but I really want to be one, I don't feel like I am a man unless I have slept with a respectable amount of girls. Is this a good desire? I desperately want...
A. 12 April 2013: I just don't feel adequate being a virgin at 22. I don't feel manly enough. I ride a 1800cc motorbike, I go to the gym a lot, I train in Mixed Martial Arts and am in the Army Reserves. But I still feel inadequate to people who have had sex. and even ... (read in full...)
Has my boss noticed that I'm attracted to him and repulsed by me?
Q. I'm married (unhappily) and have been working in a new place for about 4 months now. My boss is also married and is the same age as me. Things between us were going great. In terms of work he defends me to others, favours me, buys me little work ...
A. 20 April 2012: he could just be facing inner turmoil, he may not be unhappily married. he may be beating himself up over even thinking about cheating.
In the words of the philosopher Immanuel Kant "In law a man is guilty when he violates the rights of others. ... (read in full...)
Two girls, changing opinions?
Q. Two questions here. I am friends with this girl, we have been hanging pretty much exclusively at uni, so much that people thing we are a couple. I'm not really attracted to her, but today she was all happy about this guy who likes her, and I fe...
A. 20 April 2012: Yea I guess I like the fact it is always just me and her, others may hang with us, but we are the constant... and if she gets a boyfriend she will want to spend time with him and not me. I haven't really ever had a girlfriend so I must be getting ... (read in full...)
Still sleeping with my FWB when I have an amazing guy waiting for me....
Q. The man I love (M) lives across the country from me. We have decided that when I move back we will be together but it's really hard for me to cut the ties I have here. I was with M for 1 1/2 before I move and we were on good terms when I left. He ...
A. 20 April 2012: Did you decide you were totally apart when you left? if so, its fine. Anyway if you are going to see M, why can't you sleep with him?
But if you are doing a LDR then you will need to find it in yourself to stop this FWB. It is all in your will pow... (read in full...)
In a relationship and I don't want to cheat but I want to fool around with other people! Do other people feel this too?
Q. Hey everyone. So I love my boyfriend, we have been dating for almost 2 years and I'm pretty sure I'm gonna marry him when we get out of college and stuff (I'm 18, he's 20). But have any of you ever wanted to just fool around with other people? Just ...
A. 20 April 2012: It is a balance between your feelings for him and your want to go and fool and or sleep about. The second is fun, but if you feel you truly have found your man, don't ruin it.
Not to be a negative Nancy too much, but a lot of young relation... (read in full...)
We have been dating for over a year but still no sex!
Q. So I'm 24 and have been dating a man that is older than me, he is 40. He is the best guy any girl can have we have a really great connection. We have been dating for a little over a year now but we havent made it "official" we don't believe in ...
A. 20 April 2012: have you made it clear you are interested sexually? he might feel creepy or something trying it on with you if he thinks you do't want to do that with him.... (read in full...)
I'm tired of feeling like guys just want me for sex. Should I take a virginity pledge?
Q. I've never slept with anyone before (or even had a boyfriend); I'm currently in my first year at uni and a lot of my friends are sleeping around and such or in relationships. I was considering getting a boyfriend because I feel really inexperie...
A. 20 April 2012: Sex is something you should never take lightly about when and how you lose it, it stays with you.
And you are wise in being cautious of these boys at your university, however you do not need to pledge until marriage. That can cause a whole lo... (read in full...)
Is it right to change who you are in the search for a partner?
Q. I often feel very alone and have this need, almost, to have a girlfriend, someone I can listen and talk to and feel completely immersed in conversation without being just friends. A thought occured to me this evening, I don't have to be anyone but...
A. 20 April 2012: Hard one.
I am just like you, over analyse every little detail of every conversation and interaction trying to work it all out and predict the future and what I must do in it.
And it is not a good thing, you think there is no chemistry betwee... (read in full...)
Guys, what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous?
Q. Okay this is a question For the guys mainly. what are the general meanings behind the words hot, sexy, beautiful, cute and pretty and gorgeous? I thought hit and sexy always meant the same thing. But i got called hot and sexy by a guy recently so ...
A. 20 April 2012: 21 y/o
They are still pretty much interchangeable, but hot and sexy are used mainly at girls who have nice bodies while gorgeous , pretty, cute and beautiful are used to describe an overall demeanour, mainly the face and over all looks.
Don't g... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong? How should I handle this situation?
Q. My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been together for 3 years. We are currently in a long distance relationship. This past weekend, my bf came to visit. As we walked into my dorm, we both noticed a girl staring at him for a long time. After a fe...
A. 20 April 2012: Do you talk to him at length or is it just cyber sex when you skype with him?
It looks like he is trying to say his old crush would talk to him about other things. If you do talk to him at length as a partner rather than just a lover then I don't ... (read in full...)
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