Why does my 50 year old boyfriend sleep with his mother?
Q. Is it normal fort a 50 some year old guy to choose to sleep in the same bed with his Mom when there are other beds/sleeping arrangements available? My boyfriend makes a habit of doing this and I find it creepy....
A. 17 July 2012: he wouldnt be my boyfriend once i found that out, that is wrong! RUN... (read in full...)
I'm loving 2 men and not able to decide between them!
Q. I really, really need advice because I'm desperately unhappy and hopelessly confused. I used to be in a relationship with a guy (say X) two years ago. It was an intense, passionate relationship but there was trouble from the beginning. I did...
A. 17 July 2012: wow! you are stuck btween a rock and a hard place. but i think the answer is obvious...Y. i think if you stuck with X, the passion will soon die out, and you cant keep going on only passion, there has to b way more involved in a relationship than ... (read in full...)
I want to fall in love with him but I'm scared...
Q. ok so i've been with my boyfriend 7 weeks and been seeing him for 10 weeks in total. we've agreed to go slow (emotionally) as we have both been hurt in the past and we dont wanna rush things. But I fall very easily (normally) but this time I haven'...
A. 10 July 2012: never rush a relationship, just go with the flow. dont even bring any feelings up to him or he might seem pressured. is very early in relationship yet. let it come naturally. take your time, and have fun along the way.... (read in full...)
I need advice, I feel stuck in this relationship!
Q. i am a 58 yr old black female living with a 53yr old black male.we have had our ups and downs,i first moved in with him, and we lived together for 7mos.we just recently moved back in together been here for 3months now,i feel that our relationship is ...
A. 9 July 2012: get out, hes using you, all that ring talk is just to keep you pacified, hes got it easy w/you paying the bills etc. thats exactly what it sounds like to me. sorry to be harsh, but i hate hearing when gals are paying the bills & rent etc just for ... (read in full...)
He wants to move in after 3.5 months of dating!
Q. I would like some advice on my situation. Thanks your first for reading this. I am a 35 years old lady and divorced once. Now I am really looking for the right guy and have a happy relationship and family. I met a nice guy 2 and half months befo...
A. 8 July 2012: oh yeah that is way to soon!! sounds to me he could possibly be wanting to use you as well, maybe to pay all the rent etc. you dont know him well enough to know his financial situation either. i wouldnt trust that at all. regardless that is not a ... (read in full...)
I'm on my own, sulking in depression and loneliness
Q. How do I deal with being alone? I've been alone all my life and I fear I'll always will be. I'm a closeted gay 17 year old boy who's never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss. I feel like I'm so far behind everyone else. I have so much ...
A. 8 July 2012: you are only 17!!!! you have a long way to go in life kiddo. allow your life to unfold, quit worrying about relationships and experience life. if i could go back to 17 i would have never had any relationships and had a little more fun along the way. ... (read in full...)
How could he leave and not say goodbye?
Q. I am so hurt and brokenhearted! A very special friend of mines moved out of state, I knew he was moving, but he told me he would take me to dinner before he left! Ok, he ended up leaving a day early. We didnt get a chance to go to dinner, I can ...
A. 8 July 2012: that was harsh of him but maybe it hurt him too much to say goodbye to you.... (read in full...)
He blew up at me, and now he's ignoring me! Did I get played?
Q. a wealthy farmer in my small town who is accused of being a player chased me 4 a long time and sent txts back and 4th for month and half. i kept turnin him down cuz of his rep and we have gotten into little disputes b4 ever going out. he ...
A. 6 July 2012: i finally txt him & basically said goodbye. he txt right away & said he was busy w/kids & not sure what to say, so i kinda let him have it and he better give me an answer. it was "busy @ lake where u should b, does that answer your question?" i txt ... (read in full...)
He blew up at me, and now he's ignoring me! Did I get played?
Q. a wealthy farmer in my small town who is accused of being a player chased me 4 a long time and sent txts back and 4th for month and half. i kept turnin him down cuz of his rep and we have gotten into little disputes b4 ever going out. he ...
A. 6 July 2012: thanks for your thoughts, i havent heard from him yet today, going on day two! havent txt him yet and not going to!... (read in full...)
How do I not sabotage things in this relationship?
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for about 5 months, but I've known him for about 4 years. I can say without a doubt that this is the happiest I've ever been. The problem isn't with him... It's me! He treats me like a princess, but I'm very ...
A. 6 July 2012: dont ever bring up the ex or his past as i just learned! if he wants to talk about any of that, let him bring it up. just go with the flow of how things are going. i wish i would have. i made the mistake of bringing up an ex in casual convo & he ... (read in full...)
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