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female
age
51-59,
*ouchcat
writes:a wealthy farmer in my small town who is accused of being a player chased me 4 a long time and sent txts back and 4th for month and half. i kept turnin him down cuz of his rep and we have gotten into little disputes b4 ever going out. he kept in pursuit and i finally gave in. results...we have a blast 2gether. i have seen him almost every nite last couple wks, he likes me to stay overnite, snuggles and kisses, havent had sex,takes me out, wants 2 buy me things, concerned how my day is, how i am, do i need anything, did i eat etc..hes made alot of comments about why this why didnt you that etc. last nite he wanted me to come to his small town 4th celebration, i pull in driveway and he is waiting outside w/daughter and his sister shows up. i have met her and part of his family. so he wants me to stay overnite, hes a little tipsy and we get talkin about feelings etc, his rep (casually)snugglin, kissing, no sex, tells me hes glad 2 hear i really like him, I bring up his ex from last year casually and he blew up, got mad and gets outa bed and tells me to leave and now! i apologized 4 bringing it up, and he said he was sick of it, thinks i am asking around about his past/him, and hung up on his ex (which i am not (past is past) i sent him 2 txts aplogizing, telling him i like him and care about him, not hung up just thought he wanted to explain her, havent heard a thing from him. why would he go thru all that chasing, meeting his family, takin me out etc to shut me down after one comment about ex? did he really like me or was he that good a player?
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reader, couchcat +, writes (6 July 2012):
couchcat is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni finally txt him & basically said goodbye. he txt right away & said he was busy w/kids & not sure what to say, so i kinda let him have it and he better give me an answer. it was "busy @ lake where u should b, does that answer your question?" i txt back & said yes but if i should be @ the lake why didnt u respond to my apology on wed, and just invite me then? seems fishy to me yet. havent heard back from that one yet. hmmmm
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reader, couchcat +, writes (6 July 2012):
couchcat is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your thoughts, i havent heard from him yet today, going on day two! havent txt him yet and not going to!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 July 2012):
 he got very emotional about an ex... perhaps he's not over the situation with her... maybe it ended badly and she left him and he was not over her?
or maybe he's being defensive because he did something that he's ashamed of...
leave him alone... and wait to see if he gets back to you...
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 His behavior is a little odd. I think he's hiding something.
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