Any advice for talking/dancing with girls?
Q. I've recently turned 18 so I've been going out clubbing and to pubs more often. I'm single, and I see a lot of girls there that I am far too shy to talk to! I have REALLY low confidence and I think I'm too ugly for anyone to notice me. Plus, the ...
A. 1 July 2011: imagine your in a parallel universe, where everyone are more confident, flirty, happy with the power of alcohol. (not that everyone will be like that).
not every chick is gonna be the same and you have to remember to back off when the obvious sign... (read in full...)
It feels nice but I can't get any release from her stimulation
Q. I need a little advice from those more experienced than I. Me and this girl have been dating for around two months or so. Recently she started wanting to pleasure me, so I agreed and let her giving me a hand job. It felt GREAT, I mean, there was ...
A. 20 September 2010: well i know I'm not a guy but ill share my opinion either way.
She obviously wants to please you so have you tried telling her to do it a different way give her a bit of direction, she would obviously do it different to what you do to yourself so c... (read in full...)
I think I might be afraid of commitment!
Q. I think I might be afraid of commitment, but not for the usual reasons people have for fearing it. This morning my boyfriend (of 6 months or so) said for the 20th time that I can leave some clothes at his place. He normally leaves some at mine but...
A. 20 September 2010: I've felt like this so many times but, sometimes its the ONE person that can change you! The way you've talked about this guy, he seems like a sweet guy so if your not ready to move out together I'm sure he'd understand your not ready. I would just ... (read in full...)
Is it age difference or what's going on here?
Q. Hello, i am having problems in my relationship right now! I am 21 and my boyfriend is 29 we started dating 4 months ago but we have been very good friends since i was 15, I moved to Chicago a year ago because i was offered a scholarship by The ...
A. 19 September 2010: Each to there own but, some people take age difference differently but 21 and 29 isn't a massive age difference me and my boyfriend are 18 years apart and we've been together for 4 years, and i love him more then anything to me it hasn't faded its ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my boyfriend once but he now wants to wait till marriage!
Q. I am 16 and my boyfriends 19. He still doesnt want to have sex and i do. We did it once but he doesnt wanna do it again till he is married. I want it so bad all the time, its all i think about when im with him. I just want to do it. I need help to ...
A. 19 September 2010: I think the question is why has he suddenly changed his mind, you've already had sex so he obviously didn't feel this way before. Have you even talked to him about it? Because that would be the first thing id do. If my boyfriend told me that, there ... (read in full...)
Truthfulness and difficulty with arousal...
Q. I recently begun having sex with my girlfriend, and although I am both physically and sexually attracted to her, I notice that I am not responding to full arousal by her body type (she has a more petite figure that I guess doesn't resonate heavily ...
A. 18 September 2010: I'm defiantly not gonna say lying is a good thing, but if it was me and my boyfriend told me my body type didn't do it for him, i would be pretty taken back it would make me feel very unappealing and a little hurt. I would say spare her feelings ... (read in full...)
I passed gas while on a date and now I'm embarrassed to see the guy!
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and I really like this guy who's 29. I ended up working in a physics department where he works as well. He's really sweet and nice, and he saw me looking at him continuously again and again, I just go red and turn my head the other ...
A. 18 September 2010: When you see him next just pretend it didn't happen. I think your looking way too much into it! You just need to learn to laugh things off...he seems really into you and i wouldn't let something silly like a fart wreck something that could be ... (read in full...)
Am I making him want me less by being available?
Q. My ex and I dated for about 3 months - like two people deeper in love than I've ever experienced in my life and I've been married and dated several guys. He was married but his wife left him and he went overseas. Then I got really sick and he chan...
A. 18 September 2010: He's just using you to his advantage because he obviously knows how you feel and hes using that against you! If me and my boyfriend broke up and he went back to his ex but wanted me on the side, i don't think i could do it. Hes the love of my life ... (read in full...)
Why does he not communicate? Why does he act that way?
Q. I am very confused and I just need some direction.I've been seeing this guy for about 10 months now and this is our second time around. After first 4 months into our relationship. He felt I didn't cared about him/relationship. And that he was tired ...
A. 18 September 2010: Ok, well it sounds like in a way hes trying to pay you back from the first 4 months you dated. i have some issues with public affections and i had a wall up for so long because id been hurt so many times, but until i meet my boyfriend and for a good ... (read in full...)
He's 400 miles away from me, how do I deal with it?
Q. My boyfriend has moved 400 miles away to University. Even though he's been gone just a few days and we've talked on the phone every day, I still miss him so much. The thought of only seeing him a few times a year makes it worse. (I may see him more ...
A. 18 September 2010: I've been in a long distance relationship for 4 years now! I'll be honest some days are harder then others and you've just have enough, but i just keep thinking about how much i love him! and that when were finally together how amazing it will be. ... (read in full...)
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