Is it too soon to be planning kids and marriage at the age of 18?
Q. I just turned 18 and my boyfriend is almost 21. We've been dating for almost 2 years. We keep talking about future plans to get married, have kids etc, and I really want to, but is it too soon to be thinking about those kinds of things?...
A. 25 May 2007: Only you can decide when you are ready to get married. Personally I think you are too young, and keep in mind, no matter how mature you feel now that you are 18, you will change a lot in the next decade. In your early 20s you will find out who you ... (read in full...)
Can I still trust my friend?
Q. Hey there, where to start... im 17 and im having problems trusting my best mate as i recently found out she slept with my ex boyfriend twice when we were still together. me and my boyfriend split up around 2 months ago over a row we had because ...
A. 16 May 2007: No you can't. and besides, you already know the answer, you are just posting on an online discussion board to get permission from strangers to do what you want to do (and are right to do) which is stop letting her be around guys you like.... (read in full...)
Everyone say he's using me for school, but I can't get over him. Help!
Q. I am 17 years old I started college last october and met someone who had the charm to make me weak at my knees! we were chatting for 2 weeks every night and during cay in college we would do work together but every1 came to know about it and loads ...
A. 16 May 2007: you are 17
you will meet someone else.... (read in full...)
He is a drug-user and we don't see each other any more. Do I need to tell him about the baby?
Q. Recently I met a man on the internet and he seemed like everything I wanted in someone, however the first time he called me he was drunk (and driving), I know this is not a good start. However he called me 3 days afterwards and was sober and nice ...
A. 16 May 2007: I guess it's your decision how badly you want an alcoholic, abusive drug user in your child's life.... (read in full...)
I like her and our first few dates went well...but she doesn't text me back or communicate as much as I do. What's going on with this girl?
Q. i have met a lovely girl at work who i now cant stop thinking about, we have had a good first few dates, she even made the first move! but our daily rapor is very bad, she hardly ever replies to my texts, and when she does, they are never on tim...
A. 16 May 2007: if she liked you, she would see you. end of story. i hate to be harsh, but if she really liked you and knew you wanted to see her, she would make plans with you. she is trying to avoid you but isn't strong enough to tell you that she isn't ... (read in full...)
I've been chatting online to her for four days... Should I tell I've started to fall for her!!?
Q. I was recently having a lng distance relationship which I posted about a while ago. That's ended now and I'm over this girl. I've just met someone on a flirting website and we've exchanged emails and numbers (and it's only been 4 days) but we cha...
A. 16 May 2007: uh yes you might want to keep that to yourself. no matter how much you talk to someone on the phone or online, it might creep her out if you tell her you have "feelings" for her after only four days. or, you could get off the computer and try to ... (read in full...)
He is not good at keeping jobs, I'm pregnant and have two other kids. Should I let him move in with me?
Q. hi,i'm 24 and 6mths pregnant. i also have 2 boys, 1 of 5 and the other 1 yr. my 1 yr olds dad (21yrs) left me 2 days after my nan had passed away now he wants me back saying he wants 2 be a proper dad and family, he doesn't work he has just started ...
A. 16 May 2007: are you nuts? you have two kids already and a third on the way - you cannot put children in the vicinity of someone this unbalanced. why is this even a question? he has broken up with you repeatedly (which means he's not that into you) and it ... (read in full...)
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