Should my BF come to a wedding on his birthday? What would be appropriate to do in this situation?
Q. I've been in a relationship for 3 months now and all is going well. We've met each other's friends and spend lots of time together. He's very considerate and caring. I am very happy! However, I'm a chronic worrier and tend to worry wore somet...
A. 2 January 2017: When it comes closer to the date, just casually ask again, "Hey, so are you interested to come for the wedding?"... (read in full...)
He is also my colleague at work and we just broke up. How can I face him when I go back to work?
Q. Im from India working in a bank. I had a relationship with a colleague since last January.. he has one friend or girlfriend i don't know with whom he spent a lot of time..now even after our relationship they talk over phone. Once i caught him ...
A. 2 January 2017: There's no way you can avoid him since you both work at the same place. Just ignore him. Talk to him only work related. Otherwise, treat him as non-existent.... (read in full...)
Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?
Q. I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...
A. 2 January 2017: He's very controlling. That's not a sweet thing at all. You're really lucky he's not with you anymore. ... (read in full...)
Waiting for a proposal for 3 years and then the ring was not to my taste. Am I worrying about things that matter in this situation?
Q. Iv been waiting over 3 and a half years for a proposal for a wedding After much nagging about marriage I got a proposal with a 219 pound argos ring when he earns over 20 000 per annum which shows no saving as he bought even this on a per monthly ...
A. 2 January 2017: In my opinion, you shouldn't get married if that's all that matters to you. What you should care about is the quality of the relationship, not the ring. You need to ask yourself why you're so concerned about the ring. Do you feel a better ring would ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time with him? Should I say something to him?
Q. I have a friend who claims he wants to be more than friends We once went on a date 2 years ago but for some reason ill never know he chickened out meeting up again . Fast forward to now he says hes sorted his head out and knows what he wants . ...
A. 2 January 2017: Men are easy to read. It sounds like he's just not that into you. If he was, trust me, you wouldn't be left wondering. ... (read in full...)
Why cant my wife say sorry?
Q. I have been noticing for a few years now that my wife never can bring herself up to say sorry! I am much more of a perfectionist than her. She has messed up a lot of things in the past - like check writing (once she added $1195 and 25 to en...
A. 2 January 2017: I'm sorry but you do realize you're getting angry over snacks? In my opinion, you seem a bit unreasonable. Children loves snacks, that's what they do. Why don't you just go out and get some more for yourself? I think you're just ticked off by ... (read in full...)
I find myself attracted to another person. I would never cheat. But what does this feeling say about my current relationship?
Q. I have been in a relationship for nine years. I love him. But recently I have found myself somewhat attracted to someone else. I would never cheat, ever. But is this something that is normal? It's just a crush but does that mean I don't fee...
A. 2 January 2017: It's absolutely normal. I've gone through that phase before. Please don't overthink it because overthinking it would cause problems in your relationship. Know that both men and women in relationships will always feel attraction for other people. It ... (read in full...)
His reaction made me feel guilty. Should I have gone there when he asked me to come over ?
Q. My boyfriend called on a Sunday as soon as he woke up, which was the same time I woke up. He asked me "come over, I'll change the oil in your car", and since I just woke up and haven't walked my little dogs for a couple days because of the cold wea...
A. 2 January 2017: It's a small matter, and I don't think you should over-analyze it. When you meet him, just say you were sorry about what happened but you already had prior plans. :)... (read in full...)
Is it possible I haven't found anyone who could excite me and hence I've now lost interest?
Q. hi there!! A happy new year to everyone I want to know if anyone has gone through the phase I am going though right now. So it has been over a year I broke up from a bad relationship that was long term. Since my focus is on my career and other p...
A. 2 January 2017: In my opinion, I just think you haven't met someone you liked. That's simply it. I am positive you'll get back the rush of emotions when you really do fall for someone.... (read in full...)
Can this become my best option? I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely
Q. I want to cut my entire family off from my life completely. I come from a very large polygamous family but we're so divided that every part of the whole is like on its own niche. I don't talk to my step neither do they talk to me. I only keep co...
A. 2 January 2017: They do sound toxic. I can imagine your dilemma. I know family is important. But say I was in your position, honestly I think I would cut them off. I don't want to be miserable forever. But I'll be happy if my family reaches out to me after I left. ... (read in full...)
Why has he turned cold?
Q. I've been friends with benefits with a guy for nearly three years. He not seen anyone else and nor have I. Over the coming months he been kissing my forehead, or holding my hand after sex. Recently we had sex and he we were talking and came over and ...
A. 23 December 2016: In my opinion, he's probably just done with the fwb and decided to move on.... (read in full...)
Does sending me picture of her stomach tattoo with the bottom of her breasts just visible mean she’s flirting with me?
Q. So I have a friend and we live far apart but we text a lot. I don't know her super well yet but I am getting to know her, I enjoy her company on the phone and she is kind of cute. We often send each other photos of our day to day life. We got onto ...
A. 23 December 2016: Definitely flirting.... (read in full...)
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