We stayed together after her affair, but she's not happy!
Q. My wife had an affair last year. We are still together as I was desperate to keep things together. The thing is, she doesn't seem very happy. I'm certain she's not seeing this chap anymore but she seems so miserable all the time and cry's whenev...
A. 30 July 2009: Sorry to hear that, but seems you have been strong and you have done the right thing to fight. It will take time for things to change, for the better or the worse, but hopefully the better. She feels so bad due the fact that she did what she did. ... (read in full...)
14 years with my BF but I don't want sex anymore. Whats my problem?
Q. I don't care for having sex with my boyfriend no more. We've been together since I was 15 years old, now 29. I keep having these dreams about him having sex with someone else. I don't like for him to touch me or nothing. I started to go to the ...
A. 29 July 2009: Well this is very common, not normal. Look you have been together a long time, and you may feel you have missed out in life. You are doing right by going to the Dr. for a check up. It may be that your hormones are going through a big change that ... (read in full...)
Sadly, I am in love with a woman, who is not my wife, but who I do love, what should I do?
Q. I am a 29 yr old guy with problems (obviously). I have been married to my wife for just shy of 1 year, though we have been together for over 7 years (met in college, first 2 yrs were not really serious yet). She is about a year younger than me. Five ...
A. 25 July 2009: Well, it is very sad to read this. I am the same age as you, and have lived a life of a 50-60 year man. Meaning experiences, money, and material things. But seems that you are taking your vows in vein. You may think you are in love with this other ... (read in full...)
I've been unfaithful and am unhappy!
Q. I have been with my husband for 9 years, married for one a half years. I have often had doubts as to whether I ought to have married him (I have had no other serious relationships and barely any boyfriends) and more recently I have been quite ...
A. 24 July 2009: Wow, wow, wow, so you made a very poor decision. Can you make things right, thats the issue. Look we men or women are not perfect. But pay attention to this, when a man is unfaithful, hes a man, men do those things. And when a woman is unfaithful, ... (read in full...)
Why is love so complicated?
Q. Why is it that love is so complicated? We read all the fairy tales when we are younger, how everyone lives happily ever after. Of course, at some point or another, we all think we have found our happily ever after. But, when we see the true ...
A. 24 July 2009: You sound like you have been hurt, and love is complicated. The honeymoon stage or at the begining of a realtionship, things are all wonderful and magical. That fades with time, but the love is still there in many ways. Love hurts, I know the ... (read in full...)
Since having kids my wife is never in the mood for sex
Q. ever since we had a kid three years ago my wife is never in the mood for sex what can i do...
A. 24 July 2009: What I have learned after 2 kids and 13 years of family life, this does happen. But I also learned that the grass is not greener on the other side, for men and the women. Look buddy, take the time to talk to her, not just ask qustions, but talk and ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my fiance even though I'm pregnant?
Q. I thought I was going to marry my best friend, but now I feel like I am making a huge mistake by committing my life to my fiance. "John" and I were as close as any friends could be- we worked together, spent every day together and hung out in soci...
A. 24 July 2009: Well, I feel for you really, this is a situation that is very common now a days. Common, but not normal in every way. There are 2 sides to a story or couples problems. You may have alot of mixed emotions going through you, and don't know how to ... (read in full...)
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