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Hey im chay!! :)

i think im a good listener and i posses a certain amount of duality, i help children at there schools that have problems at home,or with friends etc when im not doing that im a part time tattooist and DJ, i live with my partner Nicole and am pretty content. im forwarding myself as a better person, i love to help people out and listen to peoples problems. Ive had a lot of experiences and understand how they work and if eny of your problems need a hand id be happy to help:)

im a pretty outgoing laid back person, and always up for a chat, feel free to add me on msn!

talk soon chay x

How do I reassure her that I'm trustworthy?

Q.   I am in a new relationship of 2 months with my partner. (both female) She and I have started out very well and have said that we will be honest with each other even if it's not something the other person wants to hear. Last night I went out and got ...

A.   26 July 2009: Hey honey. Why not trying to reassure her that you told her because you felt guilty, and you feel very strongly in the relationship that you’re in. I’m sure she will understand that your honesty was important, and necessary for your relationship. ... (read in full...)

I have been in a gay relationship for 4 years, but I've found out that he's been looking at heterosexual porn!

Q.   I'm 25, been in a gay relationship with my partner of 4 years, he's 28. We have good jobs and live together in our city flat. In most respects, our life is good, no issues there, apart from our sex life. My partner does not seem to want se...

A.   23 July 2009: Hey honey. I know exactly what you’re going through. Often homosexual people have dreams involving opposite sex it doesn’t mean you want that, it’s normal. The same way straight people have dreams of the same sex. Or have magazines (like your ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend, is there a chance he feels the same way?

Q.   I'm in love with my bestfriend and I don't know if he feels the same way. We text each other everyday and he would find time to hang out with me even though his busy schedule. He said that he will never leave me and I am the most important person. ...

A.   22 July 2009: Hey honey. I know exactly what you are going through, when i was 15 i had a crush on my best friend, she seemed to give me hints ect. I went the wrong way about it and asked her out, and we have never spoke again after that. Sigh. Enyway, it could... (read in full...)

Help me with my relationship, please!

Q.   Well i am 25 and have four children, three from a previous relationship, and yes i started really young, But i need someones help, my fella is a gambler and goes to the pokers five days a week, now just to be clear, he doesnt spend my money and he ...

A.   21 July 2009: Hey honey! Sounds like you’re having a rather tough time. For what I’ve heard it is NOT fair on you our children’s part! To have a family or relationship it’s built on everyone playing a part and supporting each other, there is not much coming from ... (read in full...)

I'm not having much luck getting a girlfriend

Q.   I am in 8th grade at the moment and am not having much luck with a getting a girlfriend yet. I always try to be nice to girls and when in a relationship to be very sensitive to them and listen to them yet I still have no luck because all the girls ...

A.   20 July 2009: hey! Girls will be girls. They are always after the bad boys. But the descent nice(sensible) girls tend to go for the guy who is a sweatheart, who cares and will protect them. Pretty much fits your description. Dont change yourself for these supe... (read in full...)

I feel I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm self conscious about my body!

Q.   My bf wants to hav sex with me but im nervous, i am prepared to loose my virginity to him but i feel as if im ready but in the same way i dont. im quite self conscious about my body im just confused about what to do x...

A.   20 July 2009: Hey, honey i lost my virginty at 14 and deeply regret it. You need your first time to be special not because he wants to have sex with you! How old is your boyfriend honey? I expect everyone is nervous when they show there naked body to there loved ... (read in full...)

Straight/bi/gay??? Help!

Q.   Hi i need a little help, and i dont know whats going on. I'm very confused about my sexuality. Am i straight/bi/gay? idk. lately ive just been wanting to have sex more and more and and i dont know whats happening. my problem is that im very ...

A.   20 July 2009: Hey, dont worry its a phase we all go through( not just teenagers) i am a lesbian, and i had alot of trouble coming to terms with it. But more so when i was your age, i kept having dreams about girls in my class, and what it would it be like to kiss ... (read in full...)

What does being someones pigeon mean?

Q.   Would like to know what this phrase means. What does being someone's "pigeon" mean?...

A.   20 July 2009: It's another way of saying you're easy to take advantage of or con. ... (read in full...)

My family want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm scared of what they'll think of him!

Q.   my mum and dad and the rest of my family really want to meet my boyfriend i am very scared of what they will think of him what do i do ?? do you think i should invite him round and let him meet evry1 or not ? x...

A.   20 July 2009: Hey, well when i took my girlfriend to meet my family, i was terrified! Honestly mortified, that they would say something to show me up or embarrass me, the possiblity they wouldnt like her, or make her feel out of place. I can understand if your ... (read in full...)

How did you figure out that you were gay or bi?

Q.   I'm really confused right now. I have considered myself straight for my entire life, up until I realized feelings for my friend back in March. She was the only girl I had ever really had feelings for. We recently broke up, but now I can't figure out ...

A.   20 July 2009:  hello, i for one am a lesbien and would like to help, I can totally understand what you are going through. i think i came to terms with my sexuality at a younger age, but i doubted it when i realised that my first love, was my best friend. Although... (read in full...)

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