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reader, Chelle.x  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 Dont be silly babes. Of course he won't think that, if he did they why is he with you ? Jus remember what I said, if your not ready then dont do it. Only do it if its something your comfortable with ! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy boyfrind is the same age as me but im just scared he's gna think uhhhhhhhhhhh fat man beast i mean i hav curves but i am realli scared he will think uhhhh i dnt even wna touch that agen you kno
but thanks for the advise
xelliex
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reader, Chay +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Hey, honey i lost my virginty at 14 and deeply regret it. You need your first time to be special not because he wants to have sex with you! How old is your boyfriend honey? I expect everyone is nervous when they show there naked body to there loved one, i can understand that you might be embaressed because your body is not fully developed. To be honest im still embaressed about my body im rather boyishly shaped(no boobs) haha. I suggest that you talk to your mister and explain that you want to but you feel to young and your body isnt ready.
Theres always the thought if you sleep together will they like you better? well no! they dont work as hard for you, and loose respect. He will understand and wait for you if he loves you, which im sure he does. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am 14 which i guess isnt that young but my brain is telling me that he will judg me afta seein my body propally but thanks for advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am 14 which i guess isnt that young but my brain is telling me that he will judg me afta seein my body propally but thanks for advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks i am quite a young age but i do love him so much but i will take your advice and speak too him best thing too doo
thanks x
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reader, wants to do what is right +, writes (20 July 2009):
 i recently just lost my virginity and i dont regret it , the person i lost it with i had been with him for a while and i knew i was ready the night that it happened. i was extremely self concious about my body as i had scars on the back of my leg due to an accident when i was younger but honestly being self concious is nothing to worry about, obviously he loves you or he wouldnt be with you, make sure if he is experienced that he guides you through it and he goes on top. if its his first time aswell he will be as scared as you , Just remember at anyone point you feel uncomfortable stop! never do something your not happy with.
p.s it does not hurt as much as you have probably heard , i was told by lots that it kills but honestly it doesnt x x x
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (20 July 2009):
 well why not talk to your boyfriend let him know how you feel i understand what you mean i am self concious about my body too.
but jus talk to him let him know what's going on in your head and tell him that you want to lose your virginity to him but you feel little self concious about your body and feel you don't know what you want to do.
if he loves you and cares about you he'll understand and take it slow and do whatever you feel you will be comfortable with :)
i hope this helps hun
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, Chelle.x +, writes (20 July 2009):
How old r you babes ? Losing your virginity is something special. If you don't believe your ready then you don't have to do it. Ino your bf wants to do it but im sure if you explained how your not ready yet then he would understand. Why are you conscious about your body ? Do you think he will think of you in a different way afterwards or something ? x
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