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I feel that helping people is a good thing and it makes me feel proud that i can help others and not just myself.

I live in England, South Yorkshire, Sheffield.

Im an 18 year old student studying Performing Arts at norton college Full time.

I dont like it when OAP's get on the bus and people don't stand up and let them sit down. I also don't like men who think they can use you for fun because its just silly and imature.

I'm currently in a relationship

Do some people become 'bi' or gay, later in life?

Q.   i am a 47 yr old bi male, the attraction towards other men started around 30 and i explored those feelings. i know females think differently than men, my question is does the same thing happen to females, do some become bi or gay later in life....

A.   27 December 2006: Yes it is possible. Its useally because they get bored and want to experiment new things but it defetnatly is a possiblelity... (read in full...)

How do I get a bunch of prep guys to go out with my girlfriends?

Q.   How do I get a bunch of prep guys (no girls) to go out with my girlfriends? It would be fun. I talk to all the guys at school but I haven't hungout with them before....

A.   25 December 2006: to be honest it depends on how your friends feel about these prep guys. What if there not intrested. Remember you cant push someone to be in love it has to come naturally otherwise it will never last. You could all meet up and go to a movie and just... (read in full...)

We split up and I'm going insane...I don't want to lose her! What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend and I split about a week ago. It has been incredibly hard for me. We've been talking for the past two days and I cannot tell if she's just being nice or if she still likes me. We met this afternoon to exchange X-mas presents. It was ...

A.   25 December 2006: Have you tried sitting down and talking to her and telling her what she means to you and how you feel about her. i can see you love her so maybe take her out. This girl on the otherhand might be hiding something. You should both book a day to m... (read in full...)

I used my ex bf as a rebound and now I feel bad I used him! How do I get out of this?

Q.   I dated this guy for 5 months.I decided that we werent right for eachother so we started to become friends But then I started dating this other guy who I cought cheating on me so I kicked him to the curb and I used my ex as a rebound.I know I ...

A.   25 December 2006: I'd defetnatly can say that it is going to be tough. Just sit down and tell him how sorry you are and tell him everything, then back off him for a while till he contacts you, then reasure him that you just want to be friends and nothing more. It is ... (read in full...)

I get bored easy in relationships. Is it just them or me?

Q.   Hi, I've just gone 20 and had a few relationships but there's one thing that worries me. The thing is, the longest I've ever been in a relationship is a year. Around that time though I start to get bored. I'm not sure if it's the person or i...

A.   25 December 2006: You are perfectly fine. I no some one who is 29 and the longest relationship she been in is 5 months. Your still quite young and by the sounds of it just fancy a change. It not a wrong thing to do. Look at it like a pair of shoes. You might we... (read in full...)

She won't tell me if she loves me or not! How long should I give her before moving on?

Q.   I am in love with my ex.... we only broke up because we were finding long distance relationship hard. she's travelling and I've told her that I love her and want to fight to make it work but she won't tell me whether she still loves me or not. How ...

A.   25 December 2006: Im sorry to say this but the fact that she not saying anything back is the sign of the cold shoulder and maybe she doesnt want you any more. But dont let this get to you as you said another girl kissed you in the night club so it goes to show that ... (read in full...)

I think he likes me...so how do I show him that I'm interested without scaring him off?

Q.   Hey, Theres this guy that I like a lot, I've known him for a few weeks and he's really funny and nice etc. I think maybe he might like me back, but I'm not sure. Whenever we hang out he talks to me and sometimes I catch him staring at me too. How...

A.   25 December 2006: Just go for it. ive got my eye to on a certain someone. the problem is my confidence is bad, none what so ever so im shy. Just say to him would you want to go out on a date sometime if not then im fine with just being friends id rather be friends ... (read in full...)

How do I stop taking coke before it destroys me and my family?

Q.   i have a problem, i have started taking coke, not often, but i have and i love it, but i know its wrong and it would completely destroy my family if they knew... i want to stop but i dont know, its not a regular habit...

A.   25 December 2006: Even if it isnt a regular habit u HAVE to stop. I would advise you to take on a hobbie of some sort or carry ur favorite food or sweets around with you so that everytime you get a craving for coke you take a bite of this food. Taking up the hobb... (read in full...)

Is it time to end my long distance relationship?

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. i don't know much about his personnal life. he doesn't do anything for me we only talk on the phone.he was supposed to take a job to make more money and so we could be ...

A.   24 December 2006: maybe you should take a break. im not saying it will be easy but maybe you should try and find someone who lives a lot nearer. long distant relation ships are always the hardest. Go out on a date and dont tell this man then if you are still thinking ... (read in full...)

My cheating boyfriend gave me an eating disorder!

Q.   ever since my bf cheated one me and we split up i've had problems eating, i'm down to 7 stone 6 and i'm getting worried about my weight..... but when i try to eat i either only eat a few mouthfuls or i just dont want to eat at all. sometimes i feel ...

A.   24 December 2006: Sounds to me your punishing yourself for the break up by not eating. maybe its because you feel he cheated on u because of u. my friend recently went through not eating as well because of a break up with her boyfriend and she now lies in a hospital ... (read in full...)

Do doves symbolize love and friendship?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am gay. I do not know what to get my boyfriend for christmas, but I thought doves symbolized love and friendship (I got that from Home Alone 2). So that is what I got him. Is this interpretation correct? I have so many other qesti...

A.   22 December 2006: Doves symbolise peace, love, fidelity, prosperity and unity.... (read in full...)

I miss my baby daughter who is with her father. Should I just do what he wants so I can see more of her?

Q.   torn between daughter and my family.... I really need some advice and different point of views. Me and my 2 year old daughter's dad split up about 6 mths ago, ever since she has been living with him. I moved about 100 miles away from him with my...

A.   22 December 2006: I'd see leagal advice because it would not be right for your little girl if you and him were back together and in a false relationship. have you ever concidered moving nearer to be with her more. you should defetnatly seek legal advice on this one ... (read in full...)

Need some tips on how to give hand jobs!!

Q.   I'd like to give my boyfriend a handjob, and we've sorta skipped that step and gone further... but i don't really know how! i mean what do you du? squeeze it finger it what? and what do you do when he cums? help!...

A.   22 December 2006: what you do is cup the penis in your hand and move the hand up and down you could squeeze it as well but dont squeeze it to hard and dont be scared of the foreskin breaking because it won't. he could also put on a condom so that after he cums it ... (read in full...)

If your hymen is broken already, does that mean sex won't hurt as bad?

Q.   is there a way to tell if ur hymen is broken already? i havent ever had sex but i ride horses (daily) and also run frequently is there a high chance it is? if so does that mean sex will be not hurt as much the first time?? cheers and merry christmas ...

A.   22 December 2006: there is a chance but its not very high. having sex for the first time is bound to hurt a little if your not used to it. however if your hymen is broken it might not hurt as much on your first time it will just be a little uncomfortable.... (read in full...)

Should I say sorry for this kiss?

Q.   i have a very close friend. her boyfriend of 9months is seein another girl, meaning his goin out places with her and is always round her house. my friend has been upset but they havent broken up yet but today i went to see her and i gave her chri...

A.   22 December 2006: You have to remember that your friend is goin through a tough time at the moment and is probably feeling rejected after her boyfriend is cheating on her. id sit down and talk to her and asks if this is what she really wants. More importantly is it ... (read in full...)

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