I feel horny... but how do you know when you're ready for sex?
Q. well u see i am 13 years old and i have been getting really horney lately and have been thinking a lot about sex but i can't decide what to do if i should have sex or not or what please help and answer my question please...
A. 28 November 2007: i have to agree with tom.
your much too young, and you'll be coming of age where your mental state will be under a lot of pressure. the last thing you need to do right now is become sexually active. take your time, and don't try to grow up too fast... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I tried the 69 position and I think I had an orgasm but I'm not sure, could it just have been light-headedness?
Q. Hey, I have been sleeping with my boyfriend for about 4-5 months. We were in a fantastic 69 position the other day and, I think I had my first orgasm. Though I can't really remember it, it felt special and unlike anything I've experienced before. ...
A. 26 November 2007: yeah id say its an orgasm, lightheadedness would probs make u feel a little sick ? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a threesome, he's willing to do it male/male/female; should I give him a male/female/female one with my sister?
Q. my bf of 9 years wants a threesome I told him if I give him one that I want a mfm which he is fine with, he is getting his best friend cuz he say he can trust him. should I give him a fmf with my sister? if anyone has tried this what should I ...
A. 26 November 2007: not with your sister
its wrong
and his best friend?
nope
choose someone out of the circle if your gonna do it.... (read in full...)
Am I ready?
Q. i'm 15 and there's a guy i really love. we have talked about having sex lots of times but i don't know i'm ready or not. can you help me?...
A. 26 November 2007: the fact that your are in doubt yourself says that your not ready yet. and there's nothing wrong with that. dont let anyone pressure you into anything. when you can honestly say to yourself, yeah, lets go for it. thats when you have the emotional ... (read in full...)
I want to make her first time incredible.
Q. Me and this girl are going to have sex tomorrow night, we're kind of in an open relationship (that's all you can get in college these days). It's her first time, and she is a virgin, so I was wondering if anyone knows of away I can rock her world ...
A. 26 November 2007: she needs ot be relaxed.
dont make things all awkward, like, oh ok, hi, into bed there you go, bam. cause that will make you both feel crap.
she will feel a little uncomfortable at first, but nearly every girl feels that.
foreplay is important... (read in full...)
We are both worried the distance will split us apart.
Q. I'm 16 and my bf is 20, we've been going out for nearly 4 months now and are in love, the only problem is that its long distance. He lives in england and i'm in scotland,we both trust one another completely, he comes up when he can but recently...
A. 25 November 2007: ok, well technically speaking, your 16 now, so ur mum should give you the responsibility of making you own mistakes in life. she can't wrap you in bubblepaper forever. and i don't think you should be worried, let your relationship run its course. ... (read in full...)
He said he wished I was near him, when I suggested visiting he avoided the subject however. What is going on?
Q. Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, I never fall badly with guys as i have trust issues from previous stuff. But when i met him i fell completely in love with him. I can think of no one else, In fact i know no one else in this...
A. 25 November 2007: this guy needs to make his mind up about what he wants. if he's not interested in completely committing to you, tell him not to bother at all. he either wants you or he doesn't. don't take crap off a guy just cause youv'e fallen in love with him. ... (read in full...)
Should I let them sleep together?
Q. Hiya i'm a mum of two my son is 20 and my daughter is 17. Well, my daughter has got her first bf and someone who she has been best friends with since they were little, hes really nice and kind and isn't like most lads. In fact im really pleased ...
A. 12 November 2007: i think that you need to speak to the daughter.
she's 17 now, and seeing as they already share a room, i should think they're probably in and out of ach others beds anyway.
speak to her, find out her views on the subject.
as long as she's safe, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have this relationship
Q. Hi me and my I.T teacher havin been seeing each other for two years shes 33 n im 17.But shes married with two kids and she told me last week she was pregnant and it was mine. She said she will leave her husband and kids i dont know what to do. I ...
A. 12 November 2007: ok, did you know that its actually illegal in the UK for a teacher to sleep with a student? whatever age. you've already said she has a husband and children, so how do you know it is yours. are you sure she's even pregnant? i think you need... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I wasn't worried initially because I had known him for a long time and he was a virgin. Help!
Q. i'm 15 years old. and last night while i was at a friends house her brothers friend and i were fooling around. all he was doing though was fingering me. but later when we went up stairs, me and him were laying on my friends futon, and then we fooled ...
A. 12 November 2007: ok, so you had unprotected sex, mistake number one.
mistake number two, you should have taken a morning after pill the day after.
now, get yourself a pregnancy test, and from now on, remember what condoms were made for and make sure you use one.... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm leading him on
Q. i have talked about this situation before'does he fancy me,my best friend or both of us?' but the thing is it has gotten worse.on firday last week one of my friends had the same lesson as this boy and she asked him if he was going out with me.she ...
A. 12 November 2007: first of all, TALK TO HIM, find out what he thinks is going on and come to an understanding.
then decide what you want
then tell him
then be happy either with or without him,
and no, you wouldnt be leading him on, as you aren't suggesting anyth... (read in full...)
When I ended it once, he flipped out.
Q. okay i ended up breaking up with my bf, we had been dating on and off for about 3 months. I finally realized after giving him like 5 chances that i need to be out with my friends and dating different people. so i ended it with him. he said whatever, ...
A. 12 November 2007: this guy is a typical male in the sense that they dont like it when it looks like a girl has got the better of them. 'fuck off' in my english basically means go away, im not interested. the worst thing for that guy would be for you to walk away now. ... (read in full...)
She's too scared to see me and find a solution.
Q. my girl friend and me haven't been together for 5 months and suddenly she was having nightmares that i was raping her. it has been 2 days since she told me she was having nightmares. the nightmare has been going on for 3 weeks. shes scared to go to ...
A. 12 November 2007: ok first of all, you need to find out what it is causing this nightmare. has she been in a similar situation in a previous relationship maybe. secondly, you need to give her space to deal with it in her own way dont keep pushing the fact that she ... (read in full...)
Would a man in love chase her and not let her get away.
Q. Hi there, just wondered if you could offer some friendly advice? I am in love with a man who is recently out of a 15 year relationship. I'm not sure who left who as he is sensitive about it, understandably. He and his ex wife has split their ...
A. 12 November 2007: well, number one.
i think what you're doing is amazing.
but maybe its about time he knew how you felt. if he isn't prepared to understand how this is making you feel i really don't think it is worth it. i am all for putting someone else's f... (read in full...)
| *harli 1603's friends
These are mutual friends, so *harli 1603 has
added them and they have added *harli 1603!
|
