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30-35,
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writes:okay i ended up breaking up with my bf, we had been dating on and off for about 3 months. I finally realized after giving him like 5 chances that i need to be out with my friends and dating different people. so i ended it with him. he said whatever, then i told him i was sorry. his response was "fuck off i didnt do shit to you goodbye" we messaged over myspace cuase i dont really get to see him cuz hes 16 and has a job while im 14. him being older was part of the reason because he can go out and party and drink, while i cant really do that andi want to be with boys who i cant see and talk to alot. But what i dont understand is that everytime he ended it he acted liek everything was just fine...but when i end it for once he flipped out on me!! he was always so nice and i was as kind as i could be with him when i sent him the "its over" message. Is this just a guy thing? and why would he use those words to me?? and what does fuck off mean??help me out guys. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): believe me hun, when ya in an online/long distance relationship (im tlaking from experience) people type out stuff they;d NEVER say in real life, especially in break ups. and like the person before said, he just got lairy because a girl two years younger than him saw what she needed to do.
i'd try and get a guy whos local and your age. or maybe someone older who wants to spend time with you rather than partying and all that crap.
good luck =]
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reader, charli 1603  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 this guy is a typical male in the sense that they dont like it when it looks like a girl has got the better of them. 'fuck off' in my english basically means go away, im not interested. the worst thing for that guy would be for you to walk away now. and i think you should do it. if he isn't mature enough to understand why you've ended it and talk it through like the 'older,maturer person' is, then quite frankly honey, he's not worth your time or effort.
hope this helps
charli x
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Fuck off is a word that is used so often it is unreal.
It mean ok yeah fine what ever i dont really care get out of my face!
His problem is the fact that it was you that ended it it makes him look weak.
Dont worry hunny just move on and have fun.
Peaches
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