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writes: Me and this girl are going to have sex tomorrow night, we're kind of in an open relationship (that's all you can get in college these days). It's her first time, and she is a virgin, so I was wondering if anyone knows of away I can rock her world her first time, like give her a few orgasms, and things like that. Girls, what did guys do to you your first time that made you extra hot during sex, and guys, what have you done to your girls to make them extra hot. I want to make it really good for her so that she will be very attracted to me.Some things, if she's tight or dry, I have a whole tube of ky jelly. Also, I can go for very long, like I'll have my refractory period, but I can like just push through it. thanks for your help
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reader, charli 1603 +, writes (26 November 2007):
she needs ot be relaxed.
dont make things all awkward, like, oh ok, hi, into bed there you go, bam. cause that will make you both feel crap.
she will feel a little uncomfortable at first, but nearly every girl feels that.
foreplay is important for a girls first time, as she needs to feel comfortable in her surroundings. does she have a certain spot she loves you kissing or . ..? and no matter what,you need to understand you have already impressed her, otherwise she wouldn't be losing her virginity to you would she ?
good luck and have fun
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female
reader, muffy +, writes (26 November 2007):
its her first time so take it easy on her.it could hurt her and then she wont be so interested in you. make sure you let her have some fun by doing the things she wants to do to you.and just have funi hope i helpedlove and kisses
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): the thing to remember is she may be a virgin but it doesnt mean she hasnt had fantasies of being in control.
take control to start with but give her a chance to live out all the things she's been fantasising about for years!!
main thing is, dont take the fact that she's a virgin too seriously, dont let it play on your mind AND relax because i've been with guys that are keen to impress and it turns into an olympic sport, which isnt always that hot!!
main thing have fun
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007): huni if this is her first time you may try and have sex but for soem girls its really painful and you may not even be able to enter her fully because of the pain she feels. u must be ready to stop doing anything the minute she asks you to and reassure her its ok if things dont go exactly to plan jst be ther for her keep talking to her and telling her shes great and everythings ok but don't force her into anything ok. hope it goes well x
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reader, love-him +, writes (25 November 2007):
Hi hon, there isnt a very high chance on the first time she will orgasm, due to the pain she may have from it being her first time. Make sure she is relaxed, maybe have some candles around, make her very lubricated before hand, and if you love her, tell her you love her, mid way.. I hope i helped, Feel free to mail me aout anything x
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