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writes:i'm 15 years old. and last night while i was at a friends house her brothers friend and i were fooling around. all he was doing though was fingering me. but later when we went up stairs, me and him were laying on my friends futon, and then we fooled around some more and he said can we have sex. i wasn't too worried about it because he was a virgin and i have known him for a long time. but we didn't use a condom and i know he came inside of me. my last period was november 4 and it ended on the 8th. could i become pregnant? if so what are the chances i am? help please
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reader, Blue_Angel0316 +, writes (13 November 2007):
 Hon if you have a period you can get pregnant. If you had a period just before all of this happened you are extremely fertile during this time.
Get a home pregnancy test done and if you are seek medical help immediately. Hopefully you will not have to deal with this as a Mother to be. I pray that you can correct this situation and either stop having sex, the best advice. If not please use precaution( Condom )the next time. It can save you from unwanted pregnancy and disease's.
When you state that you have known this person for a long time and that he is a virgin. How can you be sure? You have just put all of your trust upon what someone has said and might or might not be true. Hopefully he was honest. If not you placed yourself at risk for STD's, Aids and many other sexually transmitted diseases along with pregnancy.
Becomming sexual active is something that should be thought out and acted upon carefully. Don't let your childhood and your chance for real happiness get away because of a few moments of pleasure. Next time think hard about what you do before you act upon your intense feelings. It's all about restraint and self respect.
I am sure you didn't mean for things to go so far but when it did now you could have a big price to pay. Let's hope and pray that you haven't lost yourself. Talk to an adult you can trust so you can get thru this. God will be watching over you. God bless you and be with you in this your hour of need.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): First I want to say its natsy that you had sex on your friend bed (the girl)but for the rest I think you should take a pregnancy test be responisabile for your own action
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Umm . . . why did you point out that he was a virgin?
Being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not you can get pregnant. It doesn't matter at all for either the girl or the boy. If both of your bodies have matured then it's possible for two virgins to sleep with each other and get pregnant the very first time.
Things like this are the kind of BASIC stuff that you need to know if you're gonna be having sex. There's a lot more to sexuality than just fun and games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): ignore derek in iraq
what a looser
take a pregnancy test
if ur preggers, decide: keep, abort or adoption and read up on all the pros and cons on these
tell the guy if you are pregnant
and learn from your mistakes!
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reader, charli 1603  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 ok, so you had unprotected sex, mistake number one.
mistake number two, you should have taken a morning after pill the day after.
now, get yourself a pregnancy test, and from now on, remember what condoms were made for and make sure you use one. remember, sex without a condom isnt sex worth having.
good luck sweetie x
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reader, Derekiniraq +, writes (11 November 2007):
Well you are too young to be doing this. You are 15 you should be doing school work not having sex with boys. Don't you have any self respect. Don't you want you have someone to love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Hey hun go get a preggancy test sweetie there is know point asking about it when you ready know that there is a high chance you could be. It isnt good that you had unprotected sex and you shoulkd always use protection it is soo sooo soooooooo IMPORTANT!!! TAKE care and good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): Hi hun, if u hav unprotected sex and he did cum inside u, there is a chance that u could be, but dont worry untill u know for sure, i suggest that u get a home pregnancy test, theres one which is in a pink box called prodictor, it tells u accurately as early as 4 days before ur next period is due, good luck.xxx
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