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Stressed and unhappy all the time, what should I do?

Q.   i cant put a finger on what my issue could be and i dont know how i can talk to someone about it, my problem is i cry a lot and get lonely. I am afraid of staying alone because i will think a lot sometimes i cant let go of things people did to hurt ...

A.   26 March 2012: Well, good thing is philosophy...you should know that many people have, most of them have difficult and heavy lives with their struggles and hard childhood so you're not alone and you're not a singular in that field. You should also know that those ... (read in full...)

He's too good for me so I don't dare ask him out! What should I do?

Q.   I'm in love with someone who's too good for me. So I've been having feelings for him for over a year. We're good friends but I always feel a bit inferior when I'm with him. He's just so all-rounded amazing at everything. And because of that I could ...

A.   23 March 2012: Be friends with him, at least you can learn from him much if he's so all-round a man. That you feel inferior to him is not good. Does he notice that? If not, don't think about that, be what you are. If you compare yourself with him so try to ... (read in full...)

I feel that I am one of the worst people known

Q.   I'm a little unsure of where I should even begin. I am 23 years old and I am married to the most amazing person I've ever met. We've been together for over three years, and things are pretty much perfect. We both have decent jobs, a house, two cats, ...

A.   23 March 2012: If something disturbs you I think you know what it is. Maybe you really think too much but why should you do that if everything as you say seems so great. Try to be honest. What is there you don't realy like about yourself? You feel false about ... (read in full...)

He hurts me so much but he is like a drug I cant live without! Help!

Q.   Dear cupid My bf of 2 years constantly avoids me, often humiliates me and when i ask he says he was joking, joking or not joking, his words affect me. I told him not to do that, he never listens. I dont want his words to affect me so much, but it ...

A.   22 March 2012: I had such kind of addiction, so I can understand you. He can see that you're totally in him and he's just playing with you. He wants you to leave him but he is not a gentleman and he can't end up the relations in a civilized way. Help him, try to ... (read in full...)

Fallen in love with someone who is 9000 miles away....

Q.   it all started when I saw her blog link on a website, and you can call it a love at first click. 'you just fall for her look, you will get over it soon.'; 'tumblr is not a social network for you to find a date!' etc... I'm tired of hearing these...

A.   22 March 2012: First of the questions - does she know about your existence? And why do you think it's impossible to have a long-distance relationship if she somewhat hinted at that. This can also mean that you have a chance to prove her wrong. It's the challenge ... (read in full...)

I have to decide between letting him go or just accept the situation as it is

Q.   I’m at a crossroads and I have no idea what to do. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years and two months ago we moved in together. I met him at a time in my life when I was quite lonely and desperate to have someone. Before him I never had a ...

A.   22 March 2012: I'd definitly advise you to keep up with him than to quit as the material problems are temporary and good relations and good people they are rare. Besides the experience of surviving such kind of difficulties is of use too. Try to be more patient, ... (read in full...)

He's just not that into me!

Q.   I have been dating this guy for a few months and his interest level dropped for some reason a little. He still asked me out but it wasn't the same. I picked up the book "He's just not that into you" and I read parts of it everyday. I am believing ...

A.   20 March 2012: You'd better regret for what you've done than for what you never did. So I suggest you talk to him if you painfully thinking of him and want to clear up the things. ... (read in full...)

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