How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 28 May 2009: Being pretty is a plus, not a necessity. Maybe you're not beautiful to some people, but for some guys out there, you're probably the hottest thing ever. It's really your personality that counts, and you probably have a great one.
GOOD LUCK... (read in full...)
Clueless when it comes to girls!
Q. hi everyone. this is a question about my friend when i was 16. she always liked talking to me, we always talked almost everyday, she got jealous when i talked to her cousin and we played this game where we love the other person than stuff we really ...
A. 27 May 2009: You'll never really know until you meet her. Since you guys are good friends, then it shouldn't be too hard to meet in person.... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable for me to have such a serious expectation from a relationship?
Q. I realli need advice. Ive been with my gf for 4 months now and we are very busy with final year of schooling, so we get like once or twice a week where we talk on the phone, and once to be together on the weekend. I find Im puttin all the effort i...
A. 27 May 2009: Relationships are about understanding. Just talk to her, be there for her like you always have. It's perfectly reasonable for her to do something like that because she is still in school. If you really care about her, then you shouldn't take ... (read in full...)
She's harming herself after the breakup of her relationship! Help!!
Q. A friend of mine's boyfriend just broke up with her. She's been very depressed since. I've been trying to help her(talking to her, trying to make her laugh), but nothing seems to be working. She's started to cut herself and I feel it's my fault ...
A. 27 May 2009: Thanks guys, you're a real help. I've convinced her to get some help and she's getting better. Once again, thanks!... (read in full...)
Was I molested or raped?
Q. When i was a little kid around 7 or so my brother (around 10) would force me and my younger cousin to engage in sexual activity with him. i knew it was wrong but i was young and didnt know what to do. so i would tell him no and after a while he ...
A. 26 May 2009: yes, yes you were. if you were inappropriately touched without your consent or by force, you were. tell your parents about your childhood, get some help. It was never your fault, you were yound and scared...... (read in full...)
I feel awful that I know he's having an affair. Do I tell his wife?
Q. I have been struggling with a large amount of guilt for many years. I was very aware that one of my mutual friend's husband "Dan" was having an affair while their children were quite young and I never had the nerve to tell her. The longer it went ...
A. 26 May 2009: If he doesn't tell her(I'm doubtful he will) you should. The longer this goes on, the more painful it becomes when she finds out...... (read in full...)
Should I change for my old fashioned husband or dare to push for a job of my own?
Q. My husband believes that the women should raise children. We were both unemployed and I was expected to do all the housework and make dinner and never talk back to him. He would not bathe our daughter or change any of her diapers or feed her or ...
A. 26 May 2009: Personally, I think he's being sexist. Women have rights, and they should be respected. I really think that he should change, not you, all you're trying to do is help the family. You should try to come to an agreement on your finances and taking ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has left me for another girl!
Q. my boyfriend who has been overseas the last four months broke up with me today..he said he fell in love with another girl and got together with her a week ago. I sent him a "lovey care" package two days ago. He'll get homemade cookies baked by...
A. 26 May 2009: You have my sympathy. It's ok to be crying, it's a very sad time for you. What you should do is call up some friends and let them comfort you. All wounds heal eventually...... (read in full...)
Plain confused
Q. So, let's say we have girl.A(her) and guy.A(totally not me)... They are teenagers in school Girl.A is somewhat of a sadist, and has done "bad things" to guy.A before(physically, not emotionally or anything else)for no apparent reason Girl.A's...
A. 25 May 2009: Actually, he's regained his parents trust and patched things up with the girl and the others. It's just that he can't stop thinking about it. The girls has since stopped her sadism and they've tried to forget it...... (read in full...)
Are we going too fast?
Q. Okay so this is my first relationship and the same goes for my bf. We started seeing each other late may (we hadn't known each other at all before then), but became official a month later--- though when people ask i just say we've been going out for ...
A. 28 July 2008: I'm not really an expert on this, but maybe you guys should slow down, you don't wanna get into something you might regret.... (read in full...)
My fiance trusts me about the night I went clubbing but my mum threatens she isn't coming to the wedding!
Q. hi all i am getting married in five weeks time last week me and partner had a big fight due to the stress of it all and fri night he was not feeling well so i went out on the lash and got talking to a guy we chatted nothing else and went clubbin...
A. 28 July 2008: As long as you did nothing malicious, it's ok. As for your mother, she probably has issues with it. Maybe you should talk to her or something, that tends to ease things a bit.... (read in full...)
My friends got really annoyed with the video I put on YouTube and Bebo. Are they over-reacting?
Q. ok.. i put a video of my friends and i mucking about on youtube and bebo i told them i was going to put it on bebo. and then got really annoyed when they found out it was on youtube. but you cant put a vid on bebo without it being put on youtube. ...
A. 28 July 2008: Well... Lets take things into perspective
1. Did you ask them if you could do it?
2. Was it really that bad?
3. Have you removed it yet?
Anyway you should probably say you're sorry. ... (read in full...)
I need help to get over my boyfriend.
Q. i just broke up with my boy friend today..he sounded all emotional...hate to see him sad but i gave him more than ten chances to correct himself..he doesnt seem to change..he's just taking me for granted.is it worth goin for someone like this when ...
A. 27 July 2008: You've probably given him enough chances, but if you're still not sure about it maybe you should give him another chance. If he still acts the same, leave him, it's not worth it. there's plenty of other people out there.... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I tell him?
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been going out with for 2 months. With someone that i kissed about a year ago, it was totally out of the blue and i really regret it now. Should i tell him or not ...?!...
A. 27 July 2008: You should tell him. If you don't and he finds out from someone else, it's just gonna get worse for you. Wether he accepts it or not, you'll just have to deal with it. you brought this upon yourself. ... (read in full...)
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