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currently in a relationship, been in it for 5 years

live in melbourne, victoria

things that make me tick...

nasty heartless people

being taken for granted

when the boyfriend takes a long shower then the hot water runs out when its my turn

peas mushrooms and tomatoes

my mentrual cycle

I want to help people because i want people to help me, i like to empathise with others and spead kindness

Should I have sex with my best friend?

Q.   I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts ...

A.   21 July 2009: you should want to have sex with someone you are romantically in love with and attracted to, because this is a love making act it will feel quite awkward and wrong doing it with a mere friend. you don't want to do this with your friend and regret l... (read in full...)

My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?

Q.   I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...

A.   21 July 2009: Hi everybody, Thanks for the advice greatly appreciated. The same rule applies at my boyfriends house except his parents don't check up on us. I cant move out yet because we are studying and have no money, my boyfriend doesn't get out of uni... (read in full...)

Should I make a move or just be content to leave things?

Q.   Hey all, So I've been friends with this girl for over 2 years and we've both been through boyfriends and girlfriends while being friends. We work together and we talk a lot and people have wondered if we have been together, are going out, or wh...

A.   19 July 2009: aw cute! i think, you should say something, tell her how you feel, and also let her know how you understand that she has just gotten out of a long term relationship and that if she needs time then you understand. to tell her how you feel, pe... (read in full...)

What made my b/f think he had the RIGHT to cheat on ME? Why do cheaters think they can get away with it?

Q.   What I would like to know is what makes people think they have the right to cheat on their partners and think they can get away with it...i mean where the hell do they get off!!!! My boyfriend of 8 years cheated on me and gave me an STD the dirty, r...

A.   4 July 2009: i think i have respect for you.... are you dealing with this well? i just got cheated on but im such a mess that i dont know how to deal with it, you seem so admirable being able to throw him out with all his belongings your a strong person. ... (read in full...)

Hes mentally cheating on me with pornography

Q.   I have a problem, i am completely and totally against porn, i just cant accept it and i cant accept my boyfriend looking at it. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he has always known how upset it feel about it, i have tried to understand ...

A.   16 June 2009: Thank you to everybody for your answers, to MA-KS your story breaks my heart, i feel as though my own pain is bad enough, to go through the things you are going through would absolutely break me....how are you coping with it? im glad that there is... (read in full...)

I just don't feel like I can compare with the girls he sees in porn

Q.   I feel totally hideous and this is keeping me from enjoying and wanting sex. I feel too self conscious. My boyfriend watches porn, but it's not like he's addicted far from it actually. But these women look a thousand times better and this puts me ...

A.   8 June 2009: this made me cry as i feel exactly the same way, everyone who has written answers to you have also somewhat helped me so thank you... (read in full...)

We are all human right, so there isn't a distance to love, love has no bounds, right?

Q.   I need some help. Okay so I have been talking to this brilliant guy he is everything I am looking for in a man. This is all online on a forum not this forum this is the only place I can ask for advice without coming across a weirdo. I have s...

A.   27 January 2009: i met my boyfriend online when i was 14, i spoke to him online for about 6months before we met and we have been together for 4.5 years, he lives about an hour and a half away from me but for a kid its a long way, only now we are having ... (read in full...)

Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?

Q.   Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...

A.   25 January 2009: AHHHHHHHH i seem to be having the same type of problem and it is driving me insane i feel your pain!!!!!! i have also a wonderful boyfriend but at work i have feelings for a boy who also has a girlfriend but he has feelings for me too (its never be... (read in full...)

How do I become girlfriend material?

Q.   What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want? what if none of that works.is possoble that nice girls are attract to jerks vice versa ...

A.   18 December 2008: i believe alot of guys like nice lady like girls, not girls that burp, fart or swear i think boys find that a very big turn off, i believe that alot of boys like girls who are kind conciderate, girls who can have a laugh but also girls who take care ... (read in full...)

Went through a phase of listening to my mother masturbate... Help!

Q.   I'm really not sure exactly when it began but some time around 7th grade I became aware that my mother had a drawer full of sex toys and that she masturbated basically every night. I was very conflicted about this as I was both filled with disg...

A.   16 December 2008: i cannot think of anything that may help your guilt but telling you this when you were in 7th grade that was when you were first starting puberty and having feelings of attraction to the opposite sex, it is normal to be curious and the fact that... (read in full...)

Rough patch or is it over?

Q.   I dont know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for three years we are both 23. I love my friends but I have always felt lonley in the sense that I don't have much in common with them. When I met my boyfriend I couldn't believe it. We have the ...

A.   16 December 2008: i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and i know what you mean about having so much in common, my boyfriend went through a similar phase, as in it seemed he had better things to do than be with me... its been 6months since then and everything is ... (read in full...)

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