How do I accept that I am just not "girlfriend material"?
Q. After my last "almost-relationship" (see the question "He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!"), a big heartache and working through it and analysing my life and relationships with guys I do realise that I am "just not ...
A. 25 June 2010: Thank you guys. Gives me a lto of things to think about.... (read in full...)
How do I accept that I am just not "girlfriend material"?
Q. After my last "almost-relationship" (see the question "He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!"), a big heartache and working through it and analysing my life and relationships with guys I do realise that I am "just not ...
A. 23 June 2010: Swootnez, I am not really sure what you are saying. If it is that everything else besides a romantic relationship is more important and should be focused on ... that is what I do!
Yos and Ampersand - thank you a lot for your time. I know that you... (read in full...)
Did I shave myself incorrectly?
Q. Please please help me! It's stupid but everyone said they shave their vagina, so I decided I had to try it. I look under other questions on this web and used the answers eg use a razor and the lips the hardest part .. So I've done it now, and I ...
A. 23 June 2010: When it comes to shaving it is quite easy to get a reaction.
Do you usually shave your legs/armpits? You never have a reaction there? That is a first good start. The problem is that the skin is a lot more sensitive in that area.
If you shave ca... (read in full...)
Which country would you choose to live in? Germany or the US?
Q. I know this is not a relationship question, but I am just wondering which one would you choose US or Germany. I am 22yrs old and I have lived in US most of my life, but I am currently living in Germany. I have family in both countries and I think th...
A. 23 June 2010: Hello there,
I do not have any experience living in the US, but I know Germany. I have lived in Ireland and I would love to spend some time in the US so I do like to think about the differences between these countries as well.
The choice is yours... (read in full...)
My sister in law insulted me and accused me of things I never did! What do I do?
Q. My husband's sister Rudee called me last night. She unceasingly insulted me in every possible way and blaming me for saying something, which in fact I had never thought of. I was dumbfounded by her cruel and rude words. When I asked her to let me ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi there,
well, try to understand where she is coming from. She is not the one that made it up. From her point of view she might think that you actually did say a lot of awful things about her and she might be too emotional to actually hear wha... (read in full...)
I want to be at my best for a wedding, but this birth control pill is making me nauseous!
Q. Hi :) I recently started taking the pill, and by recently I mean i've taken it twice! And right now i'm feeling very nauseous. I knew this was a side effect, and I knew i'd be likely to get it as I usually get nauseous from antibiotics and strong p...
A. 23 June 2010: It will not do any damage.
But if the pill is causing neasea you should meet your doctor right away! Just tell your doctor what you wrote here.
You will not get a better answer here than your doctor who knows your history and body and knows th... (read in full...)
He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!
Q. Hello there, I am 29 years old and I am a sensual woman, I like everything that has to do with sex and I am quite open about that fact. I have slept with a lot of guys in my past and I have very little constraint. I like to try a lot of things an...
A. 23 June 2010: Yes Xanthic, you are completely right about that. Maybe my definition of "respect" was just a little different than what you meant. I do get what you say and yes, this kind of is a theme with all "relationships" I had so far. Maybe that is the core ... (read in full...)
He's with another woman, but still comes to me to talk about sex!
Q. Hello there, I am 29 years old and I am a sensual woman, I like everything that has to do with sex and I am quite open about that fact. I have slept with a lot of guys in my past and I have very little constraint. I like to try a lot of things an...
A. 23 June 2010: Thank you for the answer!
The first bit totally makes sense to me. I guess that is the answer to most of my relationships with guys. Except that this behaviour doesn't seem like him. He is 29 and he only ever slept with women he was in a seri... (read in full...)
Is it unfair of me to be upset?
Q. Me and my boyfriend just moved in with each other a couple of months ago. Its mostly going great, just one small problem. About 1 - 2 nights during the week my boyfriend goes out alone and drinks with his friends. And this really upsets me for some ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi there,
it is one or two nights out of 7 nights, right? The majority he still spends the nights with you.
What about you? Do you have any friends you like to talk to/meet/spend time with without your guy?
Why not try to arrange one or two n... (read in full...)
Could this have a negative effect? What should I do?
Q. hey dear cupid! So this is a bit of a random question, and I guess I just want some opinions on it. I've been searching for a job for quite sometime now and it's all been quite unsuccessful and depressing. It's not that I'm a bad worker, the job ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi there,
I understand your questions better than you think and that you even consider such a job means that you are open to it in general.
It might happen that such a job changes you. There are a lot of women out there to whom such a job would... (read in full...)
My girl's sexual tally is less than mine but I am still bothered by it
Q. I recently discovered that at my girfriend at the age of 23 has had 22 sexual partners including me. Let's forgo the truth part as I believe her but what's bothering me is the number. I didn't think I'd be bothered but when she counted up and told ...
A. 23 June 2010: Hi there,
You are not an ass! Feeling somewhat ashamed of your reaction and realising that you your feelings are not "fair" and actually seeking someone to talk about makes you a good guy. Feeling something doesn't make you an ass. How you cope... (read in full...)
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