I want that first kiss -- should I just go for it?
Q. Me and my bf have been dating for a little over 3 months. He had been in a bad relationship before that and it really affected him. He tells me I'm not like her but you can see he was really hurt by her. We go to the same school (but we don't have ...
A. 25 May 2010: When a kiss comes... it comes. Don't plan. It's gotta be in the moment, that's when it's the best :)... (read in full...)
My very first date and kiss
Q. Ok so there's this guy...we have both liked each other on and off since we were about six years old...But obviously it has gotten more serious now that were in high school. it has always seemed though that when he likes me he kinda gets shy so then ...
A. 25 May 2010: Don't PLAN a kiss!! Please don't. I remember my 1st kiss.. I was 14 years old and some dude kissed me I barley even liked... I just wanted my first kiss to be over with I guess! My point is... don't "plan" to get a first kiss... don't "plan" to get ... (read in full...)
Feel nothing during sex
Q. Im aged 21, i have had sex on several occasions but it actualy turns me off it feels uncomfortable at e tip,i love women and i crave 4 sex but wen i pernetrate...nothin! I relief myself by masterbatin,i hav bn masterbatin since i was 12,could this ...
A. 25 May 2010: I think when I first started having sex... that was my problem. I could get myself off in 2 minutes. But when my boyfriend does it, NOTHING. I've learned to just relax and enjoy.... (read in full...)
The guy who is leaving for college, or the guy in my grade?
Q. i like a guy who is leaving for college when i am only a sophomore...he is my neighbor so i will pry still c him alot...and i also like a guy who is in my grade who i have previously dated...the senior likes me he has told me and i can tell he ...
A. 25 May 2010: Since you have two more years left in high school, I don't think the college guy would be a good choice. He is going into a world full of college girls. I might be wrong but it goes the same with you. You will have more options within the two more ... (read in full...)
I was bullied and doubt myself...Does she like me?
Q. okay I'm 25 years old 6'3 brown hair not fat and workout and I have low self esteem due to being made fun of in school for being russian or whatever but when I was like 16 and walked around the streets girls always honked or yelled hey baby or ...
A. 21 August 2009: You having a business or driving a fast car has nothing to do with her liking you.. unless she's scandelous. Just wanted to put that out there sense that was the last thing I read on here. 18 and 21 years old are not that much far apart and plus she ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with being single. Do I need professional help?
Q. Hi. I guess quite a few of you know me by now, but I'm asking for help tonight because I think I'm going a little crazy. I really can't deal with single life. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, and I'm some how not like other guys who seem to ...
A. 19 April 2009: to be yourself :) you shouldnt have to act one way or another to get a girl because eventually shes gunna know the real you because you can't ack like that forever..
for me, it seems like the people you dont want show they're attracted to you & the ... (read in full...)
Just curious...
Q. Is it really (honestly) normal for completely straight, heterosexual women to be turned on by lesbian porn? ...even more so then regular porn? If so, why?...
A. 16 April 2009: yes it's normal, thats the only kind of porn that turns me on. i'm straight as can be!... but when it comes to porn.. i just dont know what it is, lesbian porn is hot! ... (read in full...)
Why did he leave me hanging?
Q. Why would a man date you for 3 months talk about evidently becoming a couple and then back way off without any explanation? I don't understand men. I would rather him dump me than to leave me hanging. What can I do? I really care for him.He has ment...
A. 14 April 2009: Move on. If he really wanted you, we wouldn't be doing this. Guys are simple minded & hes basically "telling" you what he wants..... (read in full...)
I just asked if we could talk about it!
Q. About 2 months ago my girlfiend and one of her old friends had a kinky (dirty) talk with each other just because i got real mad and some how she got mad at me because of it. I think i had a reason to be but we passed that. Last weekend my girlf...
A. 14 April 2009: I agree with Red Cherries.. when she says stuff like "gotta make sacrifices for the one you love..", she just got you right back under her spell. She didn't consider that line when she was talking with that dude..
I actually had a boyfriend who was ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?
Q. I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I live in a dorm and people here all just, they pretty much go after me and talk with each other about how I'm scared to have sex just cuz I havent ever done it. Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?...
A. 14 April 2009: I'm about to turn 18, and I'm still a virgin also. My situation is that I want to loose it, I just need to find the right person to loose it with. I don't know what you think & what your case is.. but people are frickin virgins when there 30!! It ... (read in full...)
I can't deal with being single. Do I need professional help?
Q. Hi. I guess quite a few of you know me by now, but I'm asking for help tonight because I think I'm going a little crazy. I really can't deal with single life. I feel like I'm doing something wrong, and I'm some how not like other guys who seem to ...
A. 14 April 2009: I don't know about professional help. But I can tell you that in order to make someone else happy, you have to make YOURSELF happy first. You should not have to rely on somebody else to do that for you. I'm single myself & really want to be in a ... (read in full...)
I just asked if we could talk about it!
Q. About 2 months ago my girlfiend and one of her old friends had a kinky (dirty) talk with each other just because i got real mad and some how she got mad at me because of it. I think i had a reason to be but we passed that. Last weekend my girlf...
A. 14 April 2009: I think you do know what to do with this situation. You just don't want to, & of course anyone can understand that. Look at he way shes treating you. It should be about you being mad at her because she IS doing something wrong, at the end, shes ... (read in full...)
Is this guy worth chasing?
Q. theres this guy i like, weve kissed and he fingered me at my party last weekend. (which he surpsingly came to) Weve been speaking online and texting for the past 3/4 months and bumped into each other at the bus stop about 4 times. Also we went to ...
A. 10 April 2009: oh jeez i HATE this feeling! guys piss me off when they do this. but thankfully i've learned that if a guy is interested in you enough, he'll FIND and MAKE a way to come see you & go somewhere. have you heard of the book "hes just not that into ... (read in full...)
I am thinking too much of this?
Q. First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...
A. 10 April 2009: okay that made alot of sense about the expecting part lol. thanks.. & the age gap, i was 16 back then, he was 20. now i'm 17, hes still 20. & he talked to my brother in law about it and said if i was only a year older then it would be fine. meaning ... (read in full...)
I am thinking too much of this?
Q. First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...
A. 10 April 2009: hes only 3 years older, but thanks for answer i guess.... (read in full...)
I'm14 and have never been on a date, kissed a guy, or done anything
Q. im 14 never been on a date,kissed a guy, or done anything i really want a boyfriend or at least go on one date im going into high school for crying out loud! most of my friends have had at least 2 and when i tell them they find it surprisi...
A. 10 April 2009: theres no hurry. & its silly if you trying to kiss a guy just because everyone else has. it'll come when the time is right & that will just make it 10x better rather than doing it to get it over with. i'm 17 & i STILL get nervous around guys, its ... (read in full...)
Is it worth starting up a long distance relationship?
Q. Ok, so here goes. I met this girl last summer when I went to another city for a work term. She was really nice, we became friends and all but I never did ask her out because we were working together, and because I knew I would have to leave at the ...
A. 10 April 2009: I am actually going through the same thing. Let me tell you about my situation before helping you out cause this is how i can relate. My sister lived on a marine base with her husband last summer, i visited them for 2 months. I meet a friend of ... (read in full...)
How do I break through to her and make her mine..
Q. I met a girl, we've been sort of seeing each other. I thought she liked me coz she was giving me signs. but to my surprise just before i told her how i realy feal , she said we can only be friends. Reason being that past guys have been letting her ...
A. 9 April 2009: well you can't MAKE her yours.. but i'll tell you a couple things. i might be wrong, but being a girl i'll try my best:
1.) some girls like to play along (like showing signs towards you) that she likes you just to see if she could have you.
2.) t... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain these weird dreams I'm having?
Q. okay well hi, i know this is nothing to do with relationships but i cant think of another way to find out.! basicly, ive been gettin really strange dreams, its now half past midnight and ive tried to sleep twice and i just cant! when i lay down ...
A. 9 April 2009: in college ive learned that dreams have to do with what your going through even though they dont relate or make sense at all. i think what your going through is the fact that you dont know if your mom saw the condom in your purse.. leading for you ... (read in full...)
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