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writes: Why would a man date you for 3 months talk about evidently becoming a couple and then back way off without any explanation? I don't understand men. I would rather him dump me than to leave me hanging. What can I do? I really care for him.He has mentioned he was scared. Is there anyway to get him back? Or should I move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Yeah...guys tend to be more elemental. Though, a woman chasing a guy, is worlds different than a guy chasing a woman.When the man chases the woman, it can raise all these issues of intimidation and fear and mistrust and disrespect and ya ya ya..We men aren't intimidated as easily [in some ways], and might actually be touched by the thought that you care enough to pursue for once, instead of us doing all the pursuing. So, why not? Give it a shot if you like him. Just keep it sane, and you're good.
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reader, CaliGrown09  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Move on. If he really wanted you, we wouldn't be doing this. Guys are simple minded & hes basically "telling" you what he wants..
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